My 7 year old son is hard work , , as soon as my son wakes up till the time he goes to bed ,he always mouthing me off and always doing everything i tell him not to , he acts like a 14 year old , he thinks he is much older then he is, everything is a battle with him , an i cant stand him most days, when 3 o'clock comes round i dread the thourght of collecting him from school,
I try and be reasonable with him, and talk things through calmly with him, but he dosnt take any notice at all, when i take him out he always shows me up, shouting n playing up in the street, i feel imbarrised when im out with him and even when i have visitors round,there is nothing wrong with him as he is top off his class at school, and when he is looked after by his nan or my partners mum, he is so well behaved, iv had comments from the school to say how extreamly good he is and well mannered he is, but when he gets home , his a totaly different boy ,
iv even had friends say to me that the way he acts is not right, and his hard work , i hate it , he treats my partner like a stranger he will say good night to me and his brother that is a year old and not my partner me and my partner have been together nearly 4 years, my partner dosnt treat him any different from his brother.
My son gets on well when there is only him and my partner there like a 1 to 1 they get on realy well as soon as i come in he starts and plays up ,thats the case when ever he is his good with other people as soon as i turn up his off one one , and i dont know why his is doing this i try with him, i do punish him iv tryed everything from taking toys away ,grounding , shouting , talking, smacking nothing works with him, but iv also tryed praising him when he does do things right. i dont understand why he is good with every one eles but naughty when his with me.