Alright, its like this. Anyone who can lend advice I'd greatly appreciate it. My nephew will be 5 in January and his mom and dad refuse to teach him right from wrong and or get him off the baby bottle. He cusses, he will hug you one minute then the next kick, spit, punch, call you all kind of names or say he will effin kill you, but with the exact words. When he does something like that his dad says "nah brah dont do that " they refuse to put him in time out "because they say it's cruel" and my sister will correct him when she's had enough of her son, which has included dragging him up the steps and locking him up stairs in the bedroom with her so she doesn't have to chase him all through the house when he's acting up. They wont teach him anything, he doesn't use a single manner, it's give me that right effin now and i want this.. they have even taught him to tell people "well, I know you dont have money just give me your credit card so I can get the toy I want!" It's never no you didn't earn it so you don't get it! *Example* a couple weeks ago he called his dad a p.o.s and when his dad got home he asked for his toy that he was promised a few days before this incident happened.... his dad said I told you since you called me a pos you weren't getting your toy, so my nephew starts to cry... long and behold the dad lays a bag on the bed with the exact toy he asked for.. it's like hello, TEACH THIS KID RIGHT FROM WRONG!! THEY TAKE HIM TO TWO CRITICAL THERAPIST WHO TELL THEM TO DO JUST THAT AND TO GET HIM OFF THE BABY BOTTLE'S, BUT THEY REFUSE TO DO EITHER ONE! "We don't want to hear him scream for hours for the damn bottle! We don't have time for that, IT COULD TAKE DAYS OR WEEKS OF HIM SCREAMING TO BREAK HIM!!!" HE HAS 11 CAVATIES ONE TOOTH HAS TO BE REMOVED, WHICH I HAVE NOW SEEN HIM SCREAM IN PAIN FOR TWO DAYS STRAIGHT.. I SHOWED THEM ONLINE ABOUT BOTTLE ROT BECAUSE THEY PUT MILK IN A BOTTLE FOR HIM WITH CHOCOLATE AND STRAWBERRY SYRUP IN IT FOR HIM AND THEY SAID THERES NO SUCH THING AS BOTTLE ROT!!!! THEY PUT SODA IN THE BOTTLE, juice when he does drink juice.. yes, again he will be 5 in january!! NOT TO MENTION THEY ARE GOING TO PUT HIM UNDER FOR THIS PROCEDERE WHICH LITTERALLY HAS ME TERRIFIED FOR THIS LITTLE BOY. I SAID IF YOU WOULD CUT THE BABY BOTTLE OFF 100% AND THE CANDY BACK BY LIKE 50-60% THIS KID WOULDN'T BE GOING THROUGH ANY OF THIS!! OH YEAH THE MOM normally gives him candy for breakfast with a bottle to shut him up, with the tv or his phone. . so she can then get on her cell phone... I'm at my witts end! Her husband never raised his previous four kids and my sister never raised her previous two.. so, it's two people who never raised one of their children trying to raise one single kid, and failing miserably! Neither one of them take him outsideto play to help get some of his energy out... i could be here all day naming stuff off.. everyday is his birthday or as the dad calls "present day" Do I just call the little man's therapist and tell what's really going on? Input please someone, thanks.