My son is 2 n his dad spanks him for everything he does. i dont believe in spanking. our son is out of control. or should i say typical terrible twos but my fiance dont understand. my son now lashes out in anger hitting biting pullibg hair throwing whatever he can get his hands on. It getsbso bad sometimes where i break down n cry cuz i feel i failed as a mom. How can i get his dad to calm down with him so maybe our son will calm down he wont listen n come to a 50/50 with me