You are welcome ,I understand what you mean, I like you, sometimes feel uncomfortable when things are brought up that I want to forget, do you know what I do, I obsess and think about it for a few mins, then I tell myself,' Stop, its all done ,it all past, you are doing okay, all is well,' I might say that a few times, I get doing something, and it lessens and doesnt ruin my day ....
thank you for your perspective i ask many people why they ask in the first placed and all they is they dont know i appreciate your resonse very much and and i have gotten passed the incident it just when people ask me it would bring back memories and emotions would just put me in an unsettle mood but thank you i will try not to get pissed at people because of what you said thank you
-charles
So I wont say sorry to you, I think it is a way for people to express how they think it feels, that you are sad and they are sorry you were abandoned My guess is it still hurts, sometimes it is good to get some feelings out, that are repressed, it is a relief and helps .,I believe you have to be ready for it, many find that facing the truth of what happened helps them let it go so they can move on ,the memories wont go away, you learn to live with them, accept what happened and determine it wont affect the rest of your life ...counsellors very often ask you to tell your story so they may get a perspective how best to help you. ...let us know how you are doing ...