Around 1.5 year ago I've had sex with a guy. We did it safe and used a condom, but before he went in, we've touched each genitals and kinda rubbed them agains each other meanwhile we were "cuddling", it didn't went in and it didn't last for to long either. But after I had safe sex with him weird thing happened to me..
Right after I had sex I went to the toilet to pee, I don't think peeing ever hurt that much. This continued for days til weeks, but it slowly fade away after a while. After a few weeks I began to have symptoms like pain when and after urinating, a change in vaginal discharge and it got a strange smell, later I got pain in my lower belly and as far as I can remember, sometimes I bled a bit between my periods in (really little). I walked with this for around 3 to 4 months, until I got an extreme pain in my lower abdomen at my work. I wasn't able to work anymore and I called my doctor right away. She asked me if I had unsafe sexual contact, but because I was still at work and very nervous, I answered with a "no".
My dad picked me up and brought me to the doctor, where I had to pee in as small pot. The doctor didn't doubt to much and saw that I had a urinary infection, he told me he could see the bacterials swim.
He gave me 10 antibiotic pills. I took them and my symptoms slowly disappeared. Since I was still worrying about the possibility that I have been infected with chlamydia in the, I decided to take a STD test. Everything was negative and I was STD free, but of course this didn't mean that I never had one, but it might have disappeared when I took the antibiotics. I'm still worrying about it from time to time. I never found a solid answer to my question.
Maybe its good to know that when this happened I had a really dark period, and this thing made me even more stressed and depressed. This effected my body too. I've always had problems with my vaginal discharge, but not like this.
I also called the doctor but he told me you can only get effected when you have actual sex without a condom.
Anyway my thoughts and questions I want to ask you guys are:
What if he had/has chlamydia and the bacterial came on my vagina and because after that he got in, he maybe took it with him inside. Is it possible to get effected like that?
Was it coused by my urinary infection I had for a while?
Has anyone of you experienced this?
Are my chances to infinitely high (thats what i'm worrying most about)
I hope someone can help me with this. Thanks a lot for reading all the tekst I just wrote!