Although I am a fan of alternative medicine and follow that route whenever possible, there are times when the best treatment is traditional. If you have a hole or tear in your vagina, obviously it must be looked at by a specialist and the damage surgically repaired.
Hey meli120.
Aloe vera for vaginal irritation and cuts works excellent!
Best to use from actual plant. If not, ensure it is as pure as possible from aloe vera leaf.
You may have a bacterial or yeast infection. And this should be checked by your doctor.
It might be a good idea to abstain from sex for the time being.
Wishing you well.
Niko.