I think that you are being a little harsh. With lots of surgeons talking us into how good they are I would say its pretty hard to be 100% certain that they are as good as they say they are.
Since you are clearly dissatisfied with the results of your multiple procedure, it is obvious that consultation with another surgeon would be appropriate to see if your current problems can be revised.
SO this person held you against your will, forced all these surgeries on you and prohibited you from seeking a second opinion. Amazing.
Elective Cosmetic surgery is 100% the choice of the patient to have surgery performed. Therefore, in my opinion it is the patient's responsiblity to seek out the best surgeon, (are they board certified? contacting other patients for input, any medical complaints or action taken?) this may take several consutations, but it is paramount to elective cosmetic surgery. Quite honestly when I was checking into possible surgery, I certainly didn't have anyone "soliciting" my business, and if I would have, that is my clue to excuse myself from the salesperson/surgeon's office as quickly as possible and not look back. It is my opinion, when you decide you want cosmetic surgery, and paying a large amount of monies upfront for all services rendered, that you feel completely confident in the surgeon's ability, and accept responsibility your selection of the surgeon. But that is just my opinion.