who is the father?

[jsmartinez901]

I had my last menstrual period November 25th, 2017. I had unprotected sex with an ex Dec 4th, I ovulated the 7th, I had unprotected sex with a friend on dec 7th, and my conception date is Dec 9th, 2017. My first ultrasound was at 8 weeks and 5 days, my due date is September 1st,2018.  Im really confused as to who the father is, can anyone help me figure it out? Thank you.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, what do you mean when you say you ovulated the 7th and your conception date is the 9th? How do you know these things, were you under a doctor's care and he did ultrasounds and saw the egg in your ovary one day and it was gone from your ovary the next day?

[AnnieBrooke]

Or do you mean that from some counts you *should* have ovulated on the 7th and from other information you *might* have conceived on the 9th? I'm just trying to get at why you are so sure of those two dates.

[jsmartinez901]

I used to track my period and it says i ovulated the 7th and at my last prenatal appointment I had asked my doctor when my conception date was and she had told me dec 9th according to the mirena wheel.

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, I'm sorry, but Mirena wheels and apps are not accurate enough for what you need to know. And unfortunately, since your ultrasound was when you were almost at your ninth week, it will not be helpful either in splitting the difference between two guys that were only 3 days apart when they were both within the range of the margin for error from an ultrasound at that stage in the pregnancy. All you can do now is a DNA test. They are a manageable cost for most people once the baby is born, or if you have a lot of money to throw at it, you could do a prenatal DNA test. In either case, DNA testing is most calming to the worried mother if you test with both guys. There just is no way to tell you anything else since all your dates are too close together.