Pregnancy

[Lil_chloxo]

I had sex with guy A April 29th only once .
I had bleed after may 17th (it was filling up a pad etc me and guy b had sex on my period and it was all over him) we was having sex leading up to June and in June also so expected it be normal period too... Was not like spotting. And then I had a postive test June 21t who is the father?
I had a ultrasound 11 weeks on August 6th then one on August 18 I was 12+5 say due date 25th febuary.. need someone advise please is there any chance guy a the father and how far along would I be

[Sara_MHModerator]

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[Sat1987123]

Even me from reading this can see it’s guys b baby  I no how you feel though as Iv had my own separate question for the experts on here.Which is crazy cuz it’s easy to see others pregnancy problems to do with paternity but not see your own right away. Your be fine I total no how you feel but it’s true medical evidence is right there in black and white trust it! All the best...

[Lil_chloxo]

Thankyou but I'm just thinking ultrasounds are wrong ... And I just feel rest guilty everyday I search up loads of stuff and I just feel like I'm draining my self because I'm worried I don't even want my babys father in the room just incase is not his

[Sat1987123]

Babe all your dates add up and your treats are taking over! You had a period and the experts have explained why the other guy IS NOT the dad. You need to stop reading up on the net I have now! It’s is what it is! Just stop worrying what will be will be your dates add up there is nothing more anyone can say hun, you can drive ya self crazy or try enjoy the pregnancy. You conceived in June now start enjoying your pregnancy or if it’s all to much your just have to be honest with your boyfriend? I don’t think anything now can help you apart from you! Enjoy your pregnancy hun you don’t have nothing to worry about.

[AnnieBrooke]

You said "people tell me there's only 2 weeks apart as counted from day I had sex with April 29th through to my July ultrasounds and was only 11 weeks 5 days" -- it's hard to decipher what you mean exactly and what "people" have told you, but here is one possibility that would explain why you are worrying: did you know that the pregnancy time period (the figure given in "weeks") begins at the first day of your last period? NOT at conception? Your first day of your last period is counted as day 1 of the pregnancy time period. Then you have a period from day 1 - 5 or so, and then you ovulate around day 14 or so. Only then does conception happen, but a doctor would say you're on day 14 of your pregnancy even if he or she knew conception was that very day. This is not because any doctor or medical person thinks you were pregnant on days 1-13, it is just the way the count is done. If what is scaring you is that someone told you that you are 11 weeks "pregnant," and then you looked at a calendar and counted back 11 weeks and thought it was too close to the guy in April, well, you just misunderstood the way the pregnancy time count in weeks is done.

All medical people (nurses, doctors, midwives, techs), all ultrasounds and medical books (and even "What to Expect When You're Expecting") use this way of counting pregnancy, starting the pregnancy-weeks count at day 1 of your prior period. It's the norm so much that if a woman comes in who doesn't know when her last period came, the doc will look at the ultrasound, figure out from the embryo's size roughly when a typical woman's last period would have begun who has an embryo that size, assign the woman a first day of last period, and begin the count with it.) Everything in the medical world is calibrated to that kind of count.

So, what I'm thinking is that you might have confused the notion of "11 weeks pregnant" with "You conceived 11 weeks ago," and that's what is tripping you up. If a medical person of any kind tells you "You're 11 weeks along" they mean "You're 9 weeks since conception."

You're much better off to work with the due date given to you by an early ultrasound. Pregnancy from conception to full-term birth is 266 days, (the pregnancy time period used by doctors is 280 days from first day of last period to birth). If you want to know most clearly when conception was, take the estimated due date given to you from your earliest ultrasound, mark it on the calendar, and count back 266 days from that date. (Online calculators are available that do this as well.) It's much easier to see what's what if you work from your estimated due date, and don't get wrapped around the wheel trying to make the "weeks pregnant" make sense.

Does that help? :-)

[Lil_chloxo]

I understand but ultrasound not always correct... but is fine I'm paranoid I'm just askin if ultrasounds can be overly wrong I understand what you saying I'm a first time teen mum trying to figure this out... I was between 8-9 weeks at my 20 July scan I'm currently 20 weeks tomorrow I just want t o know if there any chance

[georgiam901]

I may not be as much help as Annie, but your dates make it very clear that conception happened in June. An early ultrasound would NOT be off that much. You had a period after your April encounter, which means your egg was not fertilized that month, so yay, NO CONCEPTION. You bled because your uterine lining was shedding. I know how stressful this can be at times. Your will over think and you what if, what if, what if... there are no what ifs in your scenario. None. The man in April is not the father of your child. It is scientifically impossible.

[Lil_chloxo]

Even if I didn't have a period? I bleed had to change pads because I leaked?? Surely a period right?? Okay thankyou I'm just very overwhelmed

[Lil_chloxo]

As people say ULTRASOUNDS can be off but I think is not possible from the sex in 28-29 April it doesn't say I was vertile then

[georgiam901]

But you had a period May 17th. Quit making up scenarios in your head. You got pregnant from sex in June.

[AnnieBrooke]

Guy B, no question. You didn't get pregnant from the sex April 29, you got pregnant in early June. Small differences in estimated due date aren't enough to change that.

[Lil_chloxo]

Is just people tell me there's only 2 weeks apart as counted from day I had sex with April 29th through to my July ultrasounds and was only 11 weeks 5 days or something that's not much of a drastic difference As I was sleeping with my babys father straight after him...

[Lil_chloxo]

I had slept with my babys father like two days having sex with the guy In April.. but surely ultrasounds are innacurate at 8-9 weeks. And I don't a week clear blue on 24june said 2-3 since I concieved but still think is wrong, I had postive 21st June

[Lil_chloxo]

Sorry was typing fast but slept with my babys father 2days after that guy but thankyou you made me feel better

[ppowb]

A period May 17th ties in with ovulation and conception about June 3rd and due date February 24th. In the unlikely event you ovulated April 29th your due date would be Jan 22nd.

[Lil_chloxo]

So if ther any chance I could of got pregnant bye the sex I had in April. My midwife is poo and she says they only go by the measurements of the baby but had an early ultrasound surely there would of been a difference ?

[AnnieBrooke]

It's really hard to understand what you're asking here about your midwife, surely there would of been a difference about what?

But please remember you didn't get pregnant before your period on May 17, or you wouldn't have gotten your period on May 17. Also, three (?) ultrasounds have confirmed conception in June.

[Lil_chloxo]

I had a ultrasound 8 week but my due date was 1 of march then changed it at my dating scan... It says I was fertile 1-5 of may too.. but would I be further along. And would I off got a pregnancy test sooner I done one on 18the June

[Mwalsh_]

Due date 1st march indicates conception june 8. Due date 25th feb indicates conception june 4th. Therefore guy B must be the father, neither of these possible dates are close enough to 29th April for it to be close. Also you had a period after that encounter in April so got pregnant in the next cycle :) If it was guy A, your conception would have occurred April 29th-May 5th at the most and this would be a latest due date of January 26th!