Starting to get nervous :(

[Abagail2013]

I am 35 weeks and almost close to delivery. I asked a question months ago abt ultrasounds and possible conception accuracy. I recieved some comforting advice from Annie, but I think my nerves are starting to come back because its soo close. Any advice

[AnnieBrooke]

Yeah, those hormobes can really be a problem.  :)  Don't worry, if you have an ultrasound in your fifth week, that is just about the earliest anything can be seen and a trained professional would not confuse it for an embryo that started 2 weeks earlier.

If you have a doctor saying one thing, and a bunch of people on the Internet repeating stories, go with the doctor.  

[Abagail2013]

Lol. No I haven't heard that one but I get it!....I read something online and I am curious. If the protection leaked or something happened would the ultrasound still date correctly because of the period? I guess because i just cant remember if that cycle was light or spotting. I just read all kinds of crap online abt how u/s can be a week to a month off and how sperm can live for 5days +  you did help me see how soo much would have to be wrong.                                      Dec 29th - Sex with protection.                                                                                     Jan 31st - Bleeding started (can't remember how long or heavy)                           Jan 10th, 12th and 15th unprotected sex and I think the 6th.                                  Jan 9, 10 increased sex drive bt I wasn't charting etc.                                                Feb 13th u/s said 5w2d gest sac.                                                                                 Feb 20th u/s said 5w6d crl  (both done at  pregnancy clinic)                                                                                                        Feb 22nd at my Dr u/s 6w6d.                                                                                   And Mar 29th at my Dr u/s said 12w5d conception 1/13th.                                     May 3rd at an urgent care u/s said 16w6d conception 1/19.                                  May 20th I had an u/s but my Dr said everything neasured up I think it was 20w5d. I did talk to my doctor abt the whole thing and he said he was 99% sure I didbt get pregnant from 12/29 but I think the hormobes are really gettibg to me and drivibg me a little crazy these last few weeks

[AnnieBrooke]

As I recall, you slept with someone with protection that had no visible damage or failure, and subsequently had a period, before getting pregnant, and that your estimated due date came from a very early ultrasound.  For the first guy to be the father, three things would all have had to happen together:  the condom leaked, the ultrasound was wrong, and you did not have the period that you did in fact have.  

Did I ever tell you the rooster joke when we were talking before?  A guy kept being bothered by the delusion that he was a kernel of corn being eaten by giant roosters.  He went to a therapist for months and worked on the issue, and finally his therapist pronounced him cured.  As he was leaving his final therapy session, the therapist said, "So, you no longer think you are a kernel of corn being eaten by giant roosters, right?" and the patient said "Right," and walked to the door.  Then he turned back and said, "But are you *sure* the roosters know?"