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Who is the father

I never had a doubt but that it was guy 1 but I don't know why now i feel worried. So according to the conception calculator i conceived between Sept 18-26. The first date of my last period was Sept 8 and my due is June 14. I had intercourse with guy 1 on Sept 19 (didn't ejaculate inside), Sept 22 (ejaculated inside), Sept 23(ejaculated inside), Sept 24(ejaculated inside), Sept 25 (ejaculated inside), and September 28 (ejaculated inside). Guy 2 happened on either the the 27 technically speaking since it was after midnight and didn't ejaculate inside. I think I'm just over thinking it now I was never worried but idk maybe i'm wrong and it could be guy 2 even though I'm pretty sure its guy 1 . I'm 17 weeks.
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Most probably guy 1 and your over thinking it
134578 tn?1578157483
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Hi, shevolat, when did you get your estimated due date?  Was it early in the pregnancy?  And did it come from a doctor looking at the ultrasound measurements of the baby?
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I've continuously received the same due date through out my pregnancy. The last time I received it was December 14 and it has been from a doctor looking at the ultrasound and measurements.
134578 tn?1578157483
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And the first time, was it also from an ultrasound? I'm asking because in many cases the first ultrasound is the most accurate for this purpose, if it is in the 6th or 7th week.  Also, are your cycles always an even 28 days?
134578 tn?1578157483
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The reason I ask is that the margin in the dates you name is only about 5 days, so that means it's of concern that the estimated due date be as specific as possible.  
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The first time was not from an ultrasound and they gave me june 16 but when i received the first ultrasound on Oct 30 they gave me june 14 and I was 7w 3 days then. My cycles are an average of 32 days
134578 tn?1578157483
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It sounds, then, with such a nice and early ultrasound, like you were about 5 days pregnant when you had sex with the second guy.  Conception calculator says you got pregs on September 22.

If your first ultrasound had been later in the pregnancy, this would not be a very convincing figure, because babies can grow faster or slower as pregnancy progresses, but the seventh-week ultrasounds usually have a very small margin for error when being used to determine conception dates, maybe +/- 1 day.

In your shoes, I'd go through the pregnancy sure that this was Guy 1's baby, but just to put any doubts to rest once the baby is born I would do a quiet DNA test with the other guy.
134578 tn?1578157483
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(Unless, of course, you are going to be able to tell by looking, such as if one guy is Chinese and the other guy is Irish.)

Take care.  I think that although it seems like a small margin, the baby is from guy 1.
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Thank you soo much! I feel like i can relax again
134578 tn?1578157483
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Enjoy that baby!
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I'm pregnant and feel worried I'm in a relationship but I i cheated on my boyfriend once and I regret it. I came on my period September 23 and came off on my period September 29 I had sex with the guy that's not my boyfriend on October 5 is it possible he can be my babies father. Iam not 13 weeks and 7 days a week early from my mental period I'm so confused
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Hi, Toy, could you post this as its own post?  There are odd glitches in it and it makes it hard to read.  Just click "ask question" and repost.  Also, please add how early you got an ultrasound and what due date they gave you from the ultrasound.
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