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Who is the father of my baby?
I will be 12 weeks pregnant on Friday. I had intercourse with my ex-boyfriend on June 23rd I am almost certain I had my period 3 days later and then I had intercourse with my new boyfriend on July-10th. I am concerned that the baby may be my ex's instead of my current boyfriend. If I counted correct from June 23rd til Sept. 15th would be 12 weeks excatly and I would only be 9weeks if I got pregnant on July 10th. I have not had a ultrasound yet my doctor just checked me and I have not told him my concerns about my ex-boyfriend being the father. Could I have had a period 3 days after intercourse and still be pregnant since I do believe I had a period at the end of June. My period in May was on the 30th so would I have even been fertile around June 23rd anyway? I am so confused and don't know if I should tell my new boyfriend about me and my ex having sex or not in fear that he may leave me. What should I do and who do you think the father is?
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Hi, lollypop, probably. Was it the 19th of October or the 19th of November that you are worried about? You just say "the 19th."
Hi, can someone please help me? Ian not proud of this but i had my period in October no later than the 27th ( i think it was before but can't be sure) I had sex with my be all that month I stupidly also has sex I the 19th with someone else it was not very long and he pulled out. I done a pregnancy test on the 28tb with was a strong postive I then did a clear blue on the 30th it said 3 +. I had my scan on the 21tb Jan which said 13 weeks no day due date the 29th July. Can I rule on ten 19th. Please help x
My boyfriend got locked the end of march ... in the middle of April I had sex with someone else i had a full period my boyfriend got out April 24 we had sex the hole mouth of may July 6i found out I was pregnant.. I'm 33weeks who's the father
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You had sex with your ex on the "4th 5th and 6th" of what, December or January? I'll assume January -- did you have sex with your boyfriend in January? Or only December?
i had a normal period dec, 4th and it lasted 7 days. i had sex with my boyfriend throughtout the month. i had normal bleeding on jan 2. then it just turned into spotting until the 6th. i had sex with my ex the 4th 5th and 6th. on jan. 26 i was confirmed to be 3 weeks pregnant according to my blood tests. if thats true, who is most likely the father?
i had a normal period dec, 4th and it lasted 7 days. i had sex with my boyfriend throughtout the month. i had normal bleeding on jan 2. then it just turned into spotting until the 6th. i had sex with my ex the 4th 5th and 6th. on jan. 26 i was confirmed to be 3 weeks pregnant according to my blood tests. if thats true, who is most likely the father?
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Possibly, but it might have been too late by the 19th, if you are pregnant.
well my last period was dec 8th. i had sex with 2boys this month. one of the dudes i dont know if he ejaculated in me but i was wondering, i started spotting on the 29th. i had sex with a dude on the 19th. if im pregnant, could it be the dude that i had sex with on the 19th.? plz help!!!
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Myjourney, who did you sleep with AFTER your period? Neither guy before your period would be the father.
Sunset1983 could you please help me figure something out. I have a serious question. I want to know who has the most chances of being the father. I had sexual intercourse with Guy 1 on June 1, 2014. Then I had sex with Guy 2 on June 10, 2014. I came on my period the very next day which is June 11, 2014 after I had sex with Guy 2. I had an ultrasound done on September 29, 2014 that said I was 16 weeks and 3 days. My ultrasound is putting my LMP date at June 6, 2014. Is it possible that the ultrasound could be off by a few days? Who is more likely to be the father Guy 1 or Guy 2.
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Britt, how long have you had the due date of January 4? Was it from an ultrasound in your first trimester? If so the following will be pretty accurate.
Probable date of ovulation: April 13 - 15
Possible dates of conception: April 9 to April 19
Due date: January 4 (40 weeks)
Although sperm can live for up to five days in your system (some say longer) it really does not sound like the ex, IF your ultrasound was early in your pregnancy. If the 20th week was the only time you had an ultrasound, or if you got your due date from a calendar instead of an ultrasound, then things would be more iffy (which is why a range is given). But if you know with some precision how big the baby was at some early date in the pregnancy, the conception date they give of April 13 at the earliest should be reliable. The March dates don't signify at all, it's the April date that you need to look at. I would assume you also had sex with your boyfriend in April?
Probable date of ovulation: April 13 - 15
Possible dates of conception: April 9 to April 19
Due date: January 4 (40 weeks)
Although sperm can live for up to five days in your system (some say longer) it really does not sound like the ex, IF your ultrasound was early in your pregnancy. If the 20th week was the only time you had an ultrasound, or if you got your due date from a calendar instead of an ultrasound, then things would be more iffy (which is why a range is given). But if you know with some precision how big the baby was at some early date in the pregnancy, the conception date they give of April 13 at the earliest should be reliable. The March dates don't signify at all, it's the April date that you need to look at. I would assume you also had sex with your boyfriend in April?
I am 20 weeks and 3 days pregnant, I'm due on January 4th.. The first day of my last period was march 28th. I had sex with my ex on march 11th but had sex with my current boyfriend march 8th, 9th, 13th, 20, 21,and 22. But then I had sex with my ex again on April 5th. I'm worried about who the father is to my unborn child. This is something that has been worrying me for a long time now and it's hard for me to even want to go through with having the baby. Can anyone help me?
Hi I NEED help!! I had my period may 13th until may 18th 2013. I had been having regular unprotected sex with my boyfriend for a while now and on the 18th I cheated on him (drunk mistake) the DAY I finished my period. I also slept with my boyfriend the same week and the week after my period and now I'm pregnant. According to dates of my last period I'm 7 weeks this week. But Iv no idea what the chances of the one night stand being the father are? Please help because if my bf isn't the father I'm going to be a single unstable young mother!!
wintrrmama, you might want to start your own thread for this question rather than adding it at the end of another thread -
But, doing the reverse due date calculator, it sounds like you were ovulating April 6, which would have made sex on April 3rd with your boyfriend the most likely chance of getting you pregnant. Having sex on April 10 with another man does complicate this a little, but it's still more likely it was the April 3rd encounter that got you pregnant.
When the baby is born, you'll want to do a DNA test before seeking child support.
But, doing the reverse due date calculator, it sounds like you were ovulating April 6, which would have made sex on April 3rd with your boyfriend the most likely chance of getting you pregnant. Having sex on April 10 with another man does complicate this a little, but it's still more likely it was the April 3rd encounter that got you pregnant.
When the baby is born, you'll want to do a DNA test before seeking child support.
My last period was between March 21-March 30 I've always had unprotected sex with my boyfriend because we are trying to start a but during that time we were taking a break and I stepped out on him April 10th but the other guy did not ejaculate in me but April 3rd my boyfriend did I am confused April 10th was the first and only time sincerly that I've done that I dont know whose the baby father and my due date is 12-28
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Hi, did you really mean January 29, 2012? If so, wouldn't you have been able to have a DNA test by now, since the child would be a year and almost a half old?
Here is what I'm getting from your post:
last period -- April 17 - 22
Sex with ex -- date not specified except for times of day
Sex with other ex -- date not specified
baby's due date -- January 29, 2012
I assume you're trying to work out who has the strongest chance of being the dad? To try to assess that, you'd have to name the dates when you had sex with each guy.
Here is what I'm getting from your post:
last period -- April 17 - 22
Sex with ex -- date not specified except for times of day
Sex with other ex -- date not specified
baby's due date -- January 29, 2012
I assume you're trying to work out who has the strongest chance of being the dad? To try to assess that, you'd have to name the dates when you had sex with each guy.
hi the last time i had my pms was april 17 until april 22 then i was with my ex on that sat at around 2 am then at 4 then at 9 my due date was jan 29 2012 even tho i had protected sex with my other ex the condom popped but this was before my pms can someone tell me somthing
I had sex on my period march 23rd then had sex April 2nd through the 6th the sonogram I had done on may 10 says I was 6 weeks and one day my due date is January 2nd did I conceive in march or April
Thank you
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Hi Im 21 and i have A 3yr old daughter i have went thru 4 dna test and waiting on another, i have a very hard time trying to remember who i had sexual intercourse with i had a bad past so please dont judge me, nobody wants to take a dna test and wont tell me if we had sex around that time, i really need help, & i thought about going to a physic because i dont know if my heart can take anymore bad results, shes a beatiful girl and she deserves to know who her Father is, i hate that ive done this to my daughter but ive always had a problem with memory i use to be on patches for it. This is Slowly taking all my energy..i honestly feel like i cant cry anymore tears.im drained.Advice Pls!
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If they said she was 17 weeks based on an ultrasound, there will be a little bit of margin for error. Had she gotten an ultrasound at 7 weeks, it would be accurate for dating to within one or two days but at 17 weeks there might be more variation from the average. Given that, the conception calculator says:
First day of last menstrual period: October 24, 2012
Probable date of ovulation: November 7, 2012
Possible dates of conception: November 3 to November 11, 2012
Due date: July 31, 2013 (40 weeks)
First day of last menstrual period: October 24, 2012
Probable date of ovulation: November 7, 2012
Possible dates of conception: November 3 to November 11, 2012
Due date: July 31, 2013 (40 weeks)
This girl had sex with a guy who cam in her on nov.10th, 2012 and on the same night she had sex with another guy and.the.condom.broke and he.cam in her also. She.went to the doctor friday 22 feb.2013 they said.she was 17weeks. Ans due date.is july 31. is it one.of thesse boys baby or.some one prior to them. please help
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