pregnancy

[Bird27]

okay i had sex with this guy on june 19,15 my period came june 21,15 and we used protection so on july 2,15 me and my boyfriend had sex unprotected so i went to the doctor and they told me i was a month pregnant how is that possible so im confused is it my boyfreind baby or the other guy?

[Bird27]

On Saturday August 1,15 when the bleeding started I was rushed to the hospital and the doctor took my HCG levels and he told me they was 90 and he also said maybe it's because I'm not that far along so yeah hopefully everything works out. Because I already buried a child 3 years ago and I don't won't to go through that again. But i been still taking my prenatal vitamins and eating healthy

[AnnieBrooke]

If the blood test shows an hCG level of more than 5, he might order one more, to see how fast the level is rising.  If it shows less than 5, he might give you the news that you aren't pregnant.  I hope things work out.

[Bird27]

Yes he did blood work I go back on Monday to see what's going on. The bleeding stopped last night like a period it lasted for 7 days but I didn't have any blood clots or low back or abdominal just a Lil cramping but the doctor also said maybe it's because I'm still early why he doesn't see anything he never said I wasn't pregnant.

[AnnieBrooke]

It is possible.  The bleeding and not seeing anything in an ultrasound are not the best of signs.  Try to stay off your feet and stay hydrated.  Will the doctor do a blood test?

[Bird27]

Hello, I have a question? I started bleeding on August 1,2015 a Lil cramping went to my first prenatal visit on August 6,15 I was still bleeding a Lil heavy. He checked my cervix and it was closed but he said it was a lot of blood so he decided to do a Vaginal ultrasound got the results back and he said he didn't see anything and I'm 6 weeks 5 days pregnant so he running so test to see what's going on. Do you think i could be miscarring?

[Bird27]

Exactly but I'm very for sure my period came on June 21,15 cause that was father's day and it ended on June 27,15 then on July 2,15 that's when me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex. So I know it's my boyfriend's baby now just wasn't sure at first cause things just happened so fast.

[AnnieBrooke]

..."if I didn't have a period in June this I should be worried right?" But you have said several times that your period came on June 21.  Do you think it might not have come?

The reason I'm asking is that if the doctor based everything on just being told your period came on June 21, and then later you decide your period did not in fact come in June, then you do need an ultrasound to know for sure when the pregnancy began.  But if you know for sure that your period came June 21, it is a pretty good indicator that you were not pregnant.

[Bird27]

I mean then I should be worried.

[Bird27]

Well maybe because my BF started putting things in my mind but I know what's the truth and I should have not did that. But I had sex with my boyfriend after my period on July 2, 15 if I didn't have a period in June this I should be worried right?

[AnnieBrooke]

OK, I'm trying to figure out why you are confused and stressed, if you had a period after the other guy.  What about the situation is bothering you?

[Bird27]

No it was a full period.

[AnnieBrooke]

Why do you think it might be the other guy's baby, if you had a period after having sex with him and got a negative pregnancy test on July 20?  Are you thinking that the "period" was not a normal period and that the test was a false negative?

[Bird27]

Just trying to make sure it's my boyfriend baby and not the other guy cause I'm so confused and stressed right now and I know that's not healthy for me or the baby

[Bird27]

And my period came June 21,

[Bird27]

Yes July 18, it was negative but July 20, it was positive and I had unprotected sex with my BF on July 2, me and the other guy used protection on June 19,

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, the main thing you have going on that assists you in trying to be sure about this is that you had a period in between the guys.  Right now, your doctor is only able to look at when your last period was, and tell you a count from that; when you have an ultrasound you can be more sure.  But a period after having sex tends to confirm that you were not pregnant at the time, or the period would not have come.  It is also helpful that you had a negative home pregnancy test on July 18.  

[Bird27]

Yes she used a Little cardboard.

[Bird27]

Yes I said doctor was typing to fast so on yesterday 7-29-15 I went to the doctor said she told me I was now 5 weeks pregnant and she also used a Little calendar. But me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on July 2,15 after my period witch began on June 21,15 and ended on June 27,15

[AnnieBrooke]

Oh, do you mean "left the doctor"?  You went there today, July 29?  If she told you on July 29 that you are 5 weeks "pregnant," then she was saying you are 3 weeks since conception.  (Please read the above material about how pregnancy is counted by medical people.)  You said you didn't have an ultrasound yet, did she use a calendar or a little cardboard wheel to make this weeks determination?  

[AnnieBrooke]

Sorry, but didn't understand, the nurse told you that you are 5 weeks now?  (What does left the door mean?)

[Bird27]

I just left the door and she told me I was 5 weeks now.

[AnnieBrooke]

Did the nurse say "a month pregnant" or did she say 4 weeks pregnant?  (I noticed that in a post on a different community you said 4 weeks, but here you say a month.)  

[Bird27]

I understand but I went to the clinic on July 21,15 and that's when the nurse told me I was a month pregnant. I'm just trying to see if my boyfriend the father or is it the other guy

[AnnieBrooke]

I understand that you are saying you had sex with one guy on June 19 and another guy on July 2, and a  negative pregnancy test on July 18, that the nurse said you were around 4 weeks pregnant.  But there is no way for me to answer the question of when you conceived except to point out that when a nurse says you are four weeks pregnant, she means only two weeks since conception.  I can't tell you what this means date-wise because you have not said what date it was when the nurse told you that you were a month pregnant.