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Conception date
Hi I'm just trying to figure out a slight problem okay so I have irregular periods I think my last period was may 1st because that's when I stopped bleeding I had sex may 2nd with my ex no protection but he said he pulled out and then 2 days later I bleed heavy and it stopped around may 5 then on the 7th I had sex with my new boyfriend he ejaculated in me then on may 9th I had sex with me ex again he pulled out and after that I had sec may 10 11 12 13 14 15 with my boyfriend after that nobody else I had a false pregnancy on may 18 and a positive one June 5 I went back June 14 they say they didn't indicate a heart beat but I was 6 weeks pregnant not I was going to have a miss carriage on June 21 I had a ultrasound they heard a heart beat they told me I was 6 weeks 1 day and the baby was fine I went back for my 15 week ultra sound they told me I was 16 weeks when I was only suppose to be 15 my question is who is most likely the father and us my first ultrasound correct because if it is its my boyfriends and if the 16 week one is correct it's my ex and I have a due date feb.13.2017
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The way you wrote out the dates above, where you said
"and then 2 days later I bleed heavy and it stopped around may 5 then on the 7th I had sex with my new boyfriend he ejaculated in me then on may 9th I had sex with me ex again he pulled out and after that I had sec may 10 11 12 13 14 15 with my boyfriend after that nobody else I had a false pregnancy on may 18 and a positive one June 5 I went back June 14 they say they didn't indicate a heart beat but I was 6 weeks pregnant not I was going to have a miss carriage on June 21 I had a ultrasound they heard a heart beat they told me I was 6 weeks 1 day and the baby was fine"
makes me think that the part about "June 14 they say they didn't indicate a heart beat" means you were not at 6 weeks by June 14, since they would have heard a heart beat by then (assuming this was done by ultrasound) if you were really 6 weeks along. You say they gave you a weeks count that conflicted with the fact that there was no heartbeat and then wrote off the inconsistency by saying you were probably going to miscarry, but if so you would have miscarried, and you didn't, you have a normal pregnancy. This indicates their explanation of the discrepancy was wrong, not that their weeks count was right.
Your due date from ultrasound evidence is February 13, which indicates conception May 23, and your ultrasound where they heard a heart beat on June 21 and said you were 6w1d computes back to conception on May 24.
If there had been a heartbeat on June 14, you would need to take into account that 6 weeks figure, but there wasn't. It just doesn't sound like you were really that far along at that time.
By all means get a DNA test with both guys when the baby is born, so you can put your worries to rest forever. But in your shoes, during the pregnancy I would assume the May 9 sex was too early to have produced the baby.
"and then 2 days later I bleed heavy and it stopped around may 5 then on the 7th I had sex with my new boyfriend he ejaculated in me then on may 9th I had sex with me ex again he pulled out and after that I had sec may 10 11 12 13 14 15 with my boyfriend after that nobody else I had a false pregnancy on may 18 and a positive one June 5 I went back June 14 they say they didn't indicate a heart beat but I was 6 weeks pregnant not I was going to have a miss carriage on June 21 I had a ultrasound they heard a heart beat they told me I was 6 weeks 1 day and the baby was fine"
makes me think that the part about "June 14 they say they didn't indicate a heart beat" means you were not at 6 weeks by June 14, since they would have heard a heart beat by then (assuming this was done by ultrasound) if you were really 6 weeks along. You say they gave you a weeks count that conflicted with the fact that there was no heartbeat and then wrote off the inconsistency by saying you were probably going to miscarry, but if so you would have miscarried, and you didn't, you have a normal pregnancy. This indicates their explanation of the discrepancy was wrong, not that their weeks count was right.
Your due date from ultrasound evidence is February 13, which indicates conception May 23, and your ultrasound where they heard a heart beat on June 21 and said you were 6w1d computes back to conception on May 24.
If there had been a heartbeat on June 14, you would need to take into account that 6 weeks figure, but there wasn't. It just doesn't sound like you were really that far along at that time.
By all means get a DNA test with both guys when the baby is born, so you can put your worries to rest forever. But in your shoes, during the pregnancy I would assume the May 9 sex was too early to have produced the baby.
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Thank you alot
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Misslovemost, it sounds like you conceived around May 23.
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Even if they said on June 14 that I was 6 weeks do that change my conception date
Monday I'll be 18 weeks
Monday I'll be 18 weeks
My lmp was February 22. I was intimate two days after my period ended on the 27th. He pulled out which I don't think resulted in my pregnancy (I could be wrong) and we were intimate again on March 6th. I missed my period which was due March 20/21. My first sonogram, at 11 weeks 2 days, gave me an edd of November 28. All of my other ultrasounds go hand in hand with the same due date. When do you think I conceived? I took a clear blue HPT on the 21st of March with the weeks estimator saying 1-2 weeks. Do you think I ovulated somewhere between the 6-8?
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Hi, Rosie, you might want to post this as its own question. Are you trying to decide between two different men or just trying to pin down the day you got pregnant?
Well... both. I have an average luteal phase of 13 days but that doesn't always guarantee I ovulated on that specific day, right? I could've ovulated right after the intercourse I had soon after my period? But if my ultrasounds are pretty consistent on the due date do you think I became pregnant after the second intimacy with the other guy?
Hi, Rosie, Misslovemost's is the one getting the email notifications when someone posts on this thread. If you wouldn't mind posting this as its own question (here in the DNA/Paternity community) you'll be the one getting the notifications when someone responds.
You said you're trying to decide between two men, but above you wrote you were intimate on the 27th and 'we were intimate "again" on the 6th," what other date are you wondering about if this was the same person? Is one of those a different guy than the other? Trying to figure out which date you're trying to rule out.
You said you're trying to decide between two men, but above you wrote you were intimate on the 27th and 'we were intimate "again" on the 6th," what other date are you wondering about if this was the same person? Is one of those a different guy than the other? Trying to figure out which date you're trying to rule out.
Just go up to the top of the page and click on "Ask a Question" or "Post a Question" if you get the old format, and it will start a thread for you in this community.
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If the last time you had sex with your ex was May 9, and if your ex is the person you are trying to rule out, I don't see this pregnancy as coming from your ex.
From your early ultrasound it seems that you conceived at the end of May. Did you have sex with your boyfriend throughout the month? May 9 seems too early.
From your early ultrasound it seems that you conceived at the end of May. Did you have sex with your boyfriend throughout the month? May 9 seems too early.
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Yes I had sex with him 6 times after may 6 days 2 times a day he came in me every single time but I had sec with my ex may 2nd and may 9th and he pulled out after my boyfriend I didn't have sex with anyone else
My due date February 13 2017
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Did you get the February 13 due date early in the pregnancy from a doctor reading your ultrasound results?
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Yes I was 6 weeks I'm kinda worried because now that I got bigger they are telling me I'm a week over then what I am
And they told me when I went for my 15 week ultrasound that I was 16 weeks but they said they didn't see the first ultra sound so they was going to keep my due date the same and that I was really 15 weeks I'm wondering why did the scan say 16
I been a week over sense I was 13 weeks
And on June 14 they told me they dI'd an ultrasound and say they didn't see a heartbeat and I was going to miss carry but on the 21 they told me I was 6 weeks 1 day pregnant and they say an ultrasound and gave me a due date of the 21 of feb.
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