HELP

[loveyouforever]

I don’t know how to make this make sence but I am due Jan 22,2023. I am suppose to be 9 weeks today. I had my period 17-18-19- then on the 20th I had sex with someone but we only did mouth and anal sex and not pull out method there. My conception date says May 1-2 and I was supposed to be fertile before April 30th. I had sex April 25/26 in my fertile window with GUY B ONLY in vagina and came inside me ..5 days before my ovulation date … this is two separate men. Is it possible the man from the 20th has a chance? Again I am due Jan 22,2023 I keep doing the caculator says if it was with guy A I’d be due Jan 11 and I’d be around 10 weeks and it was right after my period ending. I guess I am a little confused.. and need help.

[AnnieBrooke]

It sounds like the first guy was too early to be the dad. What part of this is confusing you?

[AnnieBrooke]

Is it the "9 weeks" part? Because the count in weeks given to you by your doctor does not start on the day of conception, but on the first day of your last period.

[loveyouforever]

I think I may just freaking myself out badly. I was up all night searching and searching. It’s just a scary thought ya know. But my last period was April 17-18-19 and I am 9 weeks today & yeah my friend keeps telling me it’s not first guy.

[AnnieBrooke]

OK, but why are you worried, if the sex with the first guy was only oral and anal, and it was a lot earlier than you were ovulating? You were "up all night searching and searching," but for what?

[Lady3622]

Im not an expert but you can’t get pregnant from oral or anal sex I don’t think .

[Lady3622]

I don’t think you have anything to worry about guy B is the father.