When you had the ultrasound, did they give you an estimated due date? (It might be listed on the ultrasound as an "EDD.") You count back 266 days from that date, to get to an estimated conception date. There are also online calculators that will do this.
The 11 weeks 5 days figure that they give you to date your pregnancy is counted from the (assumed) first day of your last period, not because they think you got pregnant that day (obviously you were bleeding and did not get pregnant on Day 1 of your cycle) but because that is simply where they begin the count.
A woman with average length cycles would ovulate about two weeks after the first day of her last period, give or take a day or two, and would conceive within 24 hours of ovulating. But if your cycles are irregular, counting forward 14 days or so from the first day of the last period is not a totally reliable way to tell when she conceived. Getting an ultrasound and then computing backward from the estimated due date that it names, is the most reliable way to assess conception date. (This is especially true if the ultrasound is early. The later in the pregnancy the ultrasound, the more "plus or minus x days" it is, because babies grow at different rates.)
Ultrasounds are more reliable than computing forward from the first day of your last period because the ultrasound sees and measures the actual baby. It then computes forward to the estimated due date and backward to a presumed first day of last period, based on the size and development of the embryo.
That all said (and it was a mouthful!!) I get a conception date of around May 13 just counting from a calendar. Send me your estimated due date and I'll run it through the calculator to check my work for you.
I meant to say , the child im carrying IS his. but he doesn't believe me.