Who is likely the father?

[Erghhhhh]

Ugh, I’m paranoid now and wasn’t before. So, I ovulated on the 23rd of a month and had sex with guy 1 twice that day and the next morning, & he didn’t pull out. That night (24th), I slept with guy 2, but he pulled out. Far before he was even finished (I did oral for a few & he finished).

Guy 1 had gone to the dr prior & learned he has a super high sperm count. Really healthy guy.

Please, save all the rudeness. I know I messed up lol I really wasn’t worried until I started overthinking it. Pretty sure it’s guy 1 but I guess I just want to know what y’all think. Due date & ovulation date has not changed.

[anonymous1949]

I'd say its most likely Guy 1 but the dates are so close you'll need a DNA test to be sure.

I hope it all works out if your favor! I also am in a situation that I wasn't worried about and am now overthinking so I know how you feel!

[Erghhhhh]

I knowww I’m kind of just hoping I’ll know after it’s a few months. I don’t think I’m telling guy 1, but guy 2 knows and obviously doesn’t think it’s his. He’s pretty confident in his pullout game (I know a lot of guys say that, but he really did pull out like five minutes beforehand). Thank you! I hope it does for you too ❤️❤️❤️

[anonymous1949]

Thank you!! Precum can definitely get you pregnant though which is why withdrawal method isn't that effective unfortunately. I am doing a prenatal noninvasive test to find out for sure, and also am not telling the partner who's baby I think it is. I am sending in a discrete sample of his DNA. But I suffer from anxiety and PTSD so this worrying is absolutely killing me. Congrats & again, best of luck, the odds are definitely in your favor!

[Erghhhhh]

I know, I’m just trying to convince myself otherwise lmao but same here! Like bad anxiety. Maybe I’ll test guy 2 and rule that out and go from there. Good luck to you too! Congratulations!❤️

[pandapants29]

May I ask what service you’re using to discreetly send in the mans dna?

[anonymous1949]

Ravgen. I believe it's around $1500 to do it.