Who could be father?

[Marniegeordie]

I split up with my ex july. September lmp 2. I had sex with a another man on the 5th of September stupid 1 night stand I took plan b pill on the 10th of sept. I then reconciled with my ex 12th of September and had sex 12 13 14 15th. My due date is 9th of june. I have a regular 28 day period please help who's most like to be father

[AnnieBrooke]

Well, though I am sure you would appreciate it if there were more time between September 5 and 16, it sounds like Mr. September 5 was too early. When you said "September lmp 2," do you mean the first day of your last period was on September 2? If so, presumably you were still bleeding on September 5? It sounds like you didn't have an egg at that time for Mr. September 5 to fertilize, and his sperm would not have lasted 11 days in your body.

[Marniegeordie]

Yes September 2 was first day of last period, stupid drunken mistake that's eaten away since. Thankyou for your answer

[Marniegeordie]

I've done all the research and obsessed about it for months all the dates are perfect for my partner but just wanted a second opinion in case I missed something. He knows aswell never hid it from him

[AnnieBrooke]

Then you're in a much better position than many of the women who write in to this community. Women do brood a lot about this question, but it only really has the power to really make them crazy if they are also trying to hide the situation from their boyfriend or husband. The dates are perfect for your partner. If you had said Mr. September 5 was a little closer in time to Mr. September 16, there would have been a more difficult bit of computation to do, but he is far enough away that in your shoes I would just get a DNA test once the baby comes for legal purposes (do it at the hospital so it goes into the baby's records) and then stop worrying about this forever.

[Marniegeordie]

Thankyou for your help I really appreciate it xx

[AnnieBrooke]

Take care, sweetie. Even allowing for the 4-6 days sperm is said to live in the woman's body, it just doesn't sound like Mr. September 5 had the opportunity to ruin your life. Now stop doing so yourself. :-)  Congratulations on your upcoming sweet baby.

[AnnieBrooke]

Hi, did you get your due date from the doctor doing an ultrasound? If so, how early in the pregnancy was that?

[Marniegeordie]

I had a 8 week scan and the  my 12 week scan both said 9th of june

[Marniegeordie]

I had a 8 week scan and the  my 12 week scan both said 9th of june

[RockRose]

According to the online pregnancy calculator, if you're due June 9,  you conceived around September 16.