kirky3019,
Seeing dental professional is strongly advised. You mention that it feels like it is spreading, even with two toddlers and partner in hospital I would strongly encourage you to seek medical help.
Abscess MAY eventually turn into Ludwig's Angina, which can be fatal (it blocks airways).
hi i have an abcesse and i cant go to the denist on insurances but if you do go to the denist i im not joking go