I am soo grateful to have accidentally come across this post!
Thank you for referencing Viktor Frankl. I have found his video incredibly encouraging and it has really put my pain and despair in a new light. 'despair = suffering - meaning' --> very intelligent quote. I have decided to attribute meaning to my suffering, learn from my mistakes and eradicate despair from my life.
I understand that some peoples pain may not be self induced through reckless behaviour (as was mine - in antithesis to the perfect example above of an innocent bystander) - however i am sure that meaning can still be attributed to suffering and thus provide a platform for growth, development and the gift to appreciate life rather than let i pass you buy.
Interestingly enough i was just watching a movie, 'red dragon' and hannibal lecter made an interesting comment. Something to the effect of "be thankful for your scars because they allow you to remember ..............." I wish I could remember the ending - I guess since this youtube excerpt i am drawing inspiration from almost anything.The point I am trying to convey is that when you really try and look at everything from an external standpoint there is much meaning for anyone in any situation - and some of the best meaning is found in despair.
A quote i love is "True character is measured as strength in the face of adversity" I think i prefer a newer amalgamation of "True character is strengthened in the face of adversity"
What a terrible tragedy!!! Obviously your cousin needs some good psychiatric care alongside of the best medical care he can get. There must be some way to reduce the pain, and there are pain specialists, and of course, the neurosurgeon who must be taking care of your cousin.
God, I'm so sorry to hear that. I am suffering just knee pain, and although no where as serious in condition as your cousin. I am 25 as well and have been seriously depressed. I just googled suicide and knee pain and it took me here. Pain wont stay away from my knees since last year and it's horrible to think it wont ever go away.
I hope the best for your family. I really do. I dont wish chronic pain on anyone (or home invasion or paralysis).Has your cousin been taking and medications that show signs of relief?
God bless.
I hope this helps more than hurts.. please search for on google video or youtube for viktor frankl (spelled right) he has surived a jewish holocaust camp and there are a few interviews with him and his outlook on life.