Need advice about Xanax and Paxil together

[mattspalace]

About six weeks ago, my wife (whom I just married in July) went to the Middle East (Iraq) in support of her company. Within a couple of weeks I started to experience severe separation anxiety and depression, which is something I've never really dealt with before.
Everyone thought it would be in my best interest to go to the doctor and get some medication to help control my symptoms  - so I did..
I was prescribed Paxil (start with a 12.5mg dose per day for a week increasing to a 25mg pill per day), and Xanax (1mg twice daily) for immediate relief. The doctor thought taking just .5mg twice daily would be enough, but wanted to go ahead and give me the option to take up to 1mg twice daily.
The Xanax did seem to work, and the doctor said that he would only like me to take it until my wife returned from the middle east, which was supposed to be no later than Oct 1st.
My wife has since returned just a few days ago (she got home early), mainly due to my condition and I would like to get off Xanax. I've only been taking it for 9 days (yesterday I only took a single .5mg dose), but this morning I believe I was experiencing withdrawl symptoms; increased heartrate, dry mouth, disoriented, neusea, sweating, shaking, etc. The symptoms did pass after about three hours, and I'd like to stop taking Xanax asap because it really scared me and my wife.

I've also been taking Paxil for 9 days while I've been taking Xanax, but I now have a long term prescription for 12.5mg daily. I took a single 25mg dosage a couple of nights ago, and I literally couldn't do anything the next day but lay on the couch in a daze. I called my doctor and told him about my symptoms, and he agreed that 12.5mg should be fine, especially since my wife has returned home.
Has the Paxil had enough time to get built up in my system?
Will I be okay to stop taking Xanax since I've only been taking it for 9 days? I really don't want to take it now because I'm honestly scared of it.

[Diz]

Yes I agree that you should stay on Paxil and wean off of Xanax slowly.  Take the Xanax until the Paxil starts to work, which should take a couple of weeks.  I have been on the Paxil for 10 years now and every time I increase it, it usually takes up to 4 weeks to start to work in my system.  I go back and forth between 12.5 mg. and 25 mg. of the Paxil CR.  Good luck!
Diz

[3rdMajor]

Dude,
    You have too much going on at once. Paxil could be a very good choice (long term) for your anxiety, but you are not likely to see any positive effects for AT LEAST 2 weeks.  But, you are likely to feel worse as your body (and mind) adjust to the presence of the drug. Take the paxil, continue taking the Xanax until the paxil is in full effect. Then slowly taper off the Xanax. When/if you want to discontinue paxil, taper off it over a couple of weeks.  Enjoy your reunion.

[Roger Gould, M.D.]

Both Xanax and Paxil are difficult to stop easily and require a tapering off because if you don't you may be subject to seizures.. YOu should ask your doctor about the tapering off schedule, but usually it takes several weeks of cutting the dose and the frequency.  although you have only had a small dose of xanax for a short period of time, you are better off being cautious about this.

[kennyd]

Obviously the doctor will have a better answer for you, but I have read that Paxil sometimes INCREASES anxiety initially until your system gets used to it.  The symptoms you describe are similar to what I have experienced when I started suffering from anxiety and panic disorder.  It might not be the Xanax...

I would also suggest seeing a therapist -- there could me more to your anxiety than just your wife going away for a while.  That might have just been the trigger, or even a coincidence.  My anxiety appeared to come "out of the blue" one day, but I've since learned that the way I was living was building it up slowly until one day my body just said "enough" and the physical symptoms began.

Good luck!