I don't understand my husband.... he will so several days and be the most loving husband then all of a sudden it is like a veil comes over him. This is my second marriage and we have been through alot from loosing everyting (he had) due to the economey. He has days of being so caring and loving then out of nowhere he talks of how much easier his life would be without me and my daughter that he would less to worry about. He tells me how much he loves me but, if I left he wold be fine. We have had to move in a 2 bedroom appt and he has 3 boys. I have tried to find a job to help but, no luck so the car he bought me had to go back. I recentley went back to school to get a better education so hopefully I can find a job to help. We have 1 car which he uses to go to work so I am home all day. This is when I do my online classes. I am so tired of the mood swings and the way he makes me feel about not working. I do the best I can with the resorces I have....we are cramped and I try to keep things orgainized the best I can but, it is not enough. I love him so much but, if I mention leaving he acts like I am giving up but, I dont want to be a burden on him as he makes me feel. he says he has so much stress he cant take much more. I feel like a good wife but, he makes me feel different. How can he love me so much one day then the next act as if am a burden. We have only been married a year. I do love him so much but, if I am the reason for his unhapiness then I will leave. Please someone tell me what I can do??