I am a 36 yr old stay at home mom of two. My 4 yr old son causes me much stress and has recently been diagnosed with possible Bipolar disorder. He is currently on a blood pressure lowering medication which I've noticed has calmed him down just a bit. I have been in and out of therapy for years and my last psychiatrist prescribed Adderall for me because I have absolutely NO energy and I drink about 10 cups of coffee a day just to keep me going. I also take Citalopram for major depression. I have always been very tired all of the time, I sleep when I'm depressed or to just escape from the world. I have no life, but my kids, whom I adore, they just drain me of everything. MY husband is no help because he gets upset when he comes home at night and I'm on the couch, listless and in no mood for sex whatsoever. I do have some periods where I am very interested, but it only lasts for a few days maybe every 6 mos?? I also have periods of great rage and I feel like as soon as I can't take anymore, I just explode. Sometimes it doesn't take much at all, it's just my mood. Every day is a battle just getting through. Life shouldn't be this way. I always wish that I had more energy so I could do more and get my kids involved in more, but I'm just so tired a worn-out. I've tried taking vitamins and now I'm taking protein because my hair is falling out in clumps (for two years now). I'm wondering if I'm Bipolar and the meds that I'm on are just making me worse! Every day it's the same.......I get very agitated, then I try to calm myself down and think of something fun to do with the kids, which is usually ruined by my son's total craziness and moods, then I'm just aggrivated and totally exhausted by 3pm and my husband comes home pissed that the house is a mess, blah, blah blah. I don't even listen to my husband anymore because it's just more stress and I don't have any answers for him, or any energy to give him. That's basically my life in a nutshell. No social life at all, no happinesss. All I do is obsess about helping my son, and take care of my joy of a two year old daughter. Meanwhile I'm physically always in pain; numbness in my fingers and toes, neck pain, headaches, and stressed out about these gray hairs and the fact that my hair is falling out! Dermatologist saw nothing. I'm now on Rogaine and Biotin supplmnts. I also take inhaled steriods for asthma, singulair, nasal spray, clonipin, requip for restless leg syndrome. My mind doesn't stop at night even though I'm physically SPENT. I feel heavy tighness in the chest usually in the afternoons (Asthma and Heart doctors say everything is normal I'm now trying to diagnose myself. I've been researching Lupus and BiPolar disorder because I have a lot of the characteristics of both. Please help!! Should I stop Adderall or Citalopram or both? Should I consider Lithium? Don't know where to turn. Have to wait til end of mo. to see psychiatrist, by then I'll be all out of meds. Nice!