I met and married the man of my dreams two years ago, attentive,kind, and loving. Now he gets angry with out warning, he does not drink alcohol, no drugs, the only medication he takes is for diabetes, he makes a six figure income, and I am a professional person, so money is not the issue. We are rehabbing a house, and he wants to put in new windows, now understand that this house does not have floors, no bathroom fixtures, no kitchen, so I said, "honey, how about we put in the floors first or something that the house does not have, since we have windows we can change them later", my husband starting yelling, cursing, jumping up and down across the room, his arms were flying all over the place,he does not hit me, his voice is loud he can be heard two blocks away, no matter how nice I ask "honey, please dont do this, the neighbors can here you" he continues for about an hour, then he walks away and about three days later, he is back to saying "darling, I love you, I want our marriage to work", but he never says Im sorry, 2 other episodes: he is 2 hours late, no problem, I am 15 min. he is yelling, and I forgot to put his shirt in the cleaners with his other 40 items, and this sets him off on his rampage, I say that I am sorry, it does not stop him,I have tried to discuss these episodes with him in the past, but all that does is make him angry and he starts all over again with the yelling and so forth. When things are good, he cooks dinner, brings the plate to me, he washes dishes,he does the laundry, he goes grocery shopping, he repairs any thing that breaks, he reads to me, he pays most of the bills, never asking me for anything, he makes love to me like I am the only woman on the earth every time we make love, this happens several times a week, he calls me terms of endearment all of the time without being asked, I have tried assisting him in every way, I give him money to help with bills and before the day ends he gives it back to me ,he says " a man should take care of his wife", I cook, and he says " I can make that better", I have tried yelling back at him, but he just gets louder, I tried being quiet and that does not stop him ,I have asked him to please go to counseling with me, he says " there is nonthing wrong with us, You dont have a care in the world, other women would love to have a husband like you", please understand, I am grateful to have him, and I know that every body have problems, and nobody is perfect, but his yelling is scary, these episodes happen at least once every two weeks, and they tear down my self esteem, they make me cry for days, they make me question my sanity,I get so nervous that I eat every thing in sight, I have gained 80 pounds, this man is my soul mate and I want this to work for us, I want us both to be happy, I am willing to do any thing, I am working on not being so sensitive, I pray to GOD every day about our situation, the abuse I suffer is mental,please give me some advice, I Love him very much.