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How to unparalyse fear

I haven't been doing to do anything meaningful.  I feel so discouraged.  I look at job postings and I don't have experience in any of those and I don't know French  and that is always required for public service jobs like administrative assistants or clerks.

I feel so trapped.  I don't know what more to do.  Everything bores me.  I can't get a job.  I am tired of having to depend on my father to pay for my bills.  He's retired too.

I know i said this hundreds of times that I don't know how to focus on something and achieve it.  I am no good at anything.

I long to disappear and vanish because I can't meet any of my goals.  I am still single with no one whom i could love or love me back.  No job.  I don't know why i was born.  I am sick and tired.

I wasn't meant for anything.  I tried many things but people kept saying i was too shy.  I made mistakes as a cashier and that didn't pay well either.  And i got fired for that.  I am just no good at anything.  

I don't know how to feel positive when all I've gotten was fear after I was postive about that Cash job but it didn't work out.  I also tried telemarketing and the manager got angry at me for messing up a call and he fired me for that.

What am i good for?  I don't want to be prostitute.  One doctor said that's what i should do.  I never went back to see him.  I didn't report him because I don't believe anyone would believe me anyways.

Life is very rough.  It has been rough ever since i was born.  I have no control.  Things don't seem to get better.  I had hope things would get better when I got older.  Well it didn't.  I still didn't find a career or a husband or anything.

I am tired of everyday where i have to pretend that I am OK with the way things are.  I am unable to escape miserry.  Having no job and no guy in my life.
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684030 tn?1415612323
M4YOU makes an interesting case... anything that helps people find themselves
is likely to instill the kind of confidence that would help in combating the fears and insecurities that tend to hold people back.
There are also medications; and, there is therapy... both can help people deal with
these "fears" especially, when they are so bad that they become paralyzing.
So, there are ways to approach the "misery" that you describe. Take care.
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1042487 tn?1275279899
Hello there,

What you have to do is to find your inner self. Dig hard to find something that is deep inside you that you like. You should find this inner self without the influence of anyone around you. What i did to find who i were is i went away from friends, family and any influences for 1 year then when i came back i had new passions and knew who i was. I did that by going to study in another city and living alone.

One thing that might help you with your self-esteem is psycho-cybernetic. It is a form of therapy you can do just by listening to a recording. I can provide you with all the information you need if you are interested in trying to get a better self-esteem and achieve your goals. All you need to do is to send me a private message asking for my help and resources.

Best regards,
M4

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