M4YOU makes an interesting case... anything that helps people find themselves
is likely to instill the kind of confidence that would help in combating the fears and insecurities that tend to hold people back.
There are also medications; and, there is therapy... both can help people deal with
these "fears" especially, when they are so bad that they become paralyzing.
So, there are ways to approach the "misery" that you describe. Take care.
Hello there,
What you have to do is to find your inner self. Dig hard to find something that is deep inside you that you like. You should find this inner self without the influence of anyone around you. What i did to find who i were is i went away from friends, family and any influences for 1 year then when i came back i had new passions and knew who i was. I did that by going to study in another city and living alone.
One thing that might help you with your self-esteem is psycho-cybernetic. It is a form of therapy you can do just by listening to a recording. I can provide you with all the information you need if you are interested in trying to get a better self-esteem and achieve your goals. All you need to do is to send me a private message asking for my help and resources.
Best regards,
M4