I highly recommend counseling. To me, it sounds like you may have depression. It's sad that you lost your job. I hope you find another one soon.
Hi, I presume, as you are on the depression site you may feel you have depression. Is that because you cry a lot? A doctor will be able to tell you if you have depression, but there may be another reason why you are crying. Sounds like you are in a bad place what with losing your job, and fighting with your boyfriend.
I suggest you visit a doctor before you go to a counsellor.
Yeah I think you should go to counselling too. Losing your job can really affect you. But when I get random urges to cry, it's usually chemical. If your therapy doesn't work for you, think about seeing a psychiatrist.