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Whats wrong with me?

Over the last couple of years ive noticed my personality, passions and just my whole life being just doesnt excist anymore.. there are some days i wont leave my room.. and ill lie to friends and family about having things to do just so they dont ask me to do anything.. sounds mean but i just dont have the urge to do things anymore.. i use to paint i mean paint everyday i always had ideas and things in my head.. for the last couple of years its just not there and i cant get excited about anything i mean anything ive messed up the last two relationships with two good guys  because they felt that i was emotionless.. and im really starting to think i am.. i get the urge to cry at the most random crap but when the person i love is leaving i wont shed a tear..I guess my question is whats wrong with me.. where has my passion for life and just general excitment for new days and new adventure gone? I want to be the person i use to be the fun down for whatever person who found excitement in everything and had the imagination to paint the world... But at this moment in life i just dont know what to do anymore and how to get it back..
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Thanks im willing to try anything at this point.
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Act NOW :)
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You are doing a good thing by asking for help and by doing so that means you know you have a problem. Good. Now let us look at this as an experience that you want to gain knowledge from so it does not happen to you.

1) Thing about the best person that you want to be. And I mean the best. E.g. the best artsiest who is a gentleman, knows politics and very active has many friends and be very sociable. Loving, caring and passionate person.

2) Get a pen and piece of paper.

3) Break down each character of the new you. For example. Active: this means paying sports...join a gym, join group exercise classes....do hiking... traveling. This is all from being active.

if you are active than you are meeting new people, which means you have better chance to developed your communication skills and make new friend. If you travel around the country, city or anywhere then you are going new experience and becoming an interesting person.

4) Take some time 10 mints of your day to read some news i.e. online such as BBC News just to find out what is going on around you and you can then reflect this on your painting.

5) Start and act NOW. This means I want you to believe that this message is going to give you an epiphany. In-fact there is a channel on YouTube called Epipheo that I want you to check it out and specially this video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2G3nxr1nvY

6) At first you will see that you have too much to do. But do not worry take it easy and be harsh at the same time. Enjoy and I mean enjoy what you do. So if you go for a hike then buy your forte drink to drink when you are at the top of the mountain. Treat yourself with nice cloths perfumes and shoes. Whatever can turn you to a better person then do so. But don’t over spend. :)

Good luck and act KNOW

Regards

Your brother
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