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484812 tn?1208693765

anti-social

I'm a quiet and a shy person, i've been like this for 5 years. I realy want friend so badly but when i try to communicate with them but i don't know what to say, and sometimes they leave me behind. i got hurt realy badly when i saw everyone have a friend beside them,except for me. I know you can't help me with this but thank you for reading...
sorry for the bad english
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I'm not real sure that's "antisocial". According to the VA, I'm "antisocial", but it doesn't mean I don't like people or people don't like me, it means that I don't fit in to "society" well, and folks who are "well adjusted" tend to shy away from me. Perhaps you're what's known here as a "nerd". Then "nerds" are young they do feel sort of outcasts, so tend to stick to their studies and such. Then, when they're older and are running companies, hiring and firing we who were "cool" and always partying with our friends when we were younger instead of studying, and they have the bikes we always only wish we could afford and lots of classy looking girlfriends or boyfriends, being "nerdy" takes on a whole new aspect.

Besides, when you do run across people you really click with, they'll often be people like yourself, and sometimes it's quality rather than quantity that matters most. When you "click" with someone it may well be far better and stronger a bond than they who have lots of good acquaintances but no real friends.

Just give it some time, you'll see.

What bad english was that?
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Oops!

"Then" = "When"

It's that loose nut behind my keyboard acting up again.
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484812 tn?1208693765
but i'm not a nerd! and i don't even look like 1 >:D ...i don't even have a good grade..and the only thing i'm good at is painting and drawing...maybe i'm not a nerd maybe i'm a useless trash
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OK, then, nerd's out. Hey, I did say "perhaps"! I've yet to see useless trash who could paint and draw, but the artistic temperament often seems to inhibit the artist from seeing that. The picture you have up in the forum here.. what does the writing say?

My girlfriend, who is an Angel, used to think of herself as useless trash, and "a complete loser". It turned out that people around her were making her feel that way, and really that wasn't because they were bad people per se, but because they envied her. Maybe you're like her, and if so one day you'll realize how wrong you are about the 'useless trash' business. I sure hope so.

Any chance we could see some of your work?
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484812 tn?1208693765
i'm not sure what it means.. i'm not chinese, sure ill show to you my drawing soon
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Great! I'm sure I'm not the only one waiting to see that. Thank you!
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484812 tn?1208693765
http://s116.photobucket.com/albums/o27/Night_Wolf4/?action=view&current=Image2.jpg here u go (i draw it when i was 12)....i wish i could post my new drawing but i don't have time to do it....i have exam this month so wish me luck!
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484812 tn?1208693765
oh it's not working.....how do u post a picture in a forum lol
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I guess the field won't take html to display the picture (that was a test to see if it'll link to it). I cut and pasted the URL, though.. WOW! You did THAT when you were 12? That's quite an amazing talent to have! Did you make the eyes that full of experience by design, or did they just come out that way? Those are the eyes of a youngster who's seen too much war. Your art is very, very impressive, and you should take great pride in being able to do it so well. I'll print that and put it on the wall here !

Best of luck on the exams!

-El Dave
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Naw, it just acted like the html didn't exist. There's some html in front of this sentence, too, but you won't see it, I'll betcha. However, you could upload the Jpeg to your profile photo area right here in this forum. I know you're busy right now, but you might do that when you can so everyone can see what a talented artist you are.

-E.D.
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