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hi i was wondering what could be wrong with me....heres whats going on.
im married to this wonderful guy, the only problem is that he does things i dont like. like, for instance, he looks at other womens *****. and he knows i dont like it and i tell him this all the time, but he dont quit. i cant stop gettin jealous, and he wont stop....and we even broke up and got back together and it didnt stop. ive tried dealing with it but it doesnt work. and now it bothers me so bad that when i see a movie, i get obsessed wanting to be that person so that i can be what he wants me to be. then i cant sleep at night and its really getting to me. whats wrong with me? why am i doing this? and is there any way to stop?? or to get him to stop??
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212753 tn?1275073111
  try getting counseling. you have some serious issues to work through. you have to find a way to love yourself and not try to be what you think he wants.He is married to you so there must have been something he saw that he likes. the counseling will help you with your self image and give you confidence to be you.  good luck and let me knwo hwo things go.
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First of all you love yourself. Only then you will be able to love others and appreciate others view. Unless you love yourself how can you love others. The problem with you seems to be lacking of self confidence in you. You need to be again loving wife of him. So start loving yourself first.And see the difference.Good luck to uou.
342793 tn?1196400264
I HAVE BEEN IN THAT VERY SAME SPOT!  HE DOES IT CAUSE HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR YOU. IF YOU DONT RESPECT SOMEONE THEN HOW DO YOU LOVE THEM. HE DOESNT REALLY LOVE YOU. BECAUSE ANYONE WHO WOULD HURT YOU ON PURPOSE DOESNT REALLY LOVE YOU. THINK ABOUT IT. REVERSE THE ROLE. IF YOU WERE DOING THAT TO SOMEONE AND KNOWING IT HURT THEM THAT MUCH BUT DID IT ANYWAY. DO YOU LOVE LOVE? NO GET RID OF HIM FOR GOOD CAUSE IT WILL WEAR YOU DOWN TO NOTHING! YOU WILL GET DEPRESSED AND ALOT MORE HEART ACHE. JUST DO IT AND DONT THINK ABOUT IT. DO IT FOR YOU CAUSE HE SURELY DONT GIVE A **** HOW YOU FEEL.
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