help me

[TxAlone]

I am currently on Wellbutrin (150mg/day).  I just started this medication on Sunday.  My Doctor changed me from Paxil because I had gained an ungodly amount of weight in the 6 months that I was on Paxil.  I have also been on:
-Cymbalta (quit because it didn't do anything for me)
-Lexapro (quit becuase of sexual side effects)

I am having major issues with the Wellbutrin so far.  I have cried every day, I feel helpless, lonely and like I can't take care of myself.  My husband doesn't help me at all.  I feel that he has abandoned me.  He tells me that he is not my mommy or my daddy.  I am 30 years old and my mommy and daddy have basically abandoned me anyways so I don't have one of those.

I have been having panic attacks for about 2 years now.  They are either daily or every other day.  The Xanax helps but doesn't sometimes.  I sometimes have 5 minute panic attacks and sometimes 2 hour panic attacks.  It just depends and there is nothing that starts them they just start.  I also have some rage issues but sometimes I think it is because I am trying to get my husband's attention and he just doesn't ever say anything.  I don't feel loved by him and I don't know why.  

It seems that he loves his children with everything he has but not me.  I don't know what is wrong with me but I thought I would post this just to see if I get any replies.  Right now (maybe b/c of the meds) my stomach hurts terribly and my legs ache.  I have heartburn everyday no matter what I eat and it is very painful.  Sometimes I feel like my brain is going to stop...!!  Help or give me advice if you can!

Thanks!

[nursegirl6572]

Just in case you didn't notice, this thread is VERY old.  It would be great if you could find current threads where people who are active on the site are looking for info and support!

Welcome to MedHelp by the way!

[Melindi]

I had all the side effects with Wellbutrin you are talking about. I thought it wasn't working so they increased my dose I couldn't fill my rx a year ago and haven't taken it since. My mind is back to normal I did have withdrawals but I got my medical marihuana card and that's all I use with no side effects I am better physically and emotionally than I ever was on any antidepressant. I use just enough to relieve my symptoms not to get "high". It's been a life saver your not crazy just experiencing some wicked side effects. Gluten free has helped me too I can't ever eat it not even a tiny amount because it affects my mood and brain function do your research and see if you have a sensitivity if u do u will feel better in 2 days I have every symptom except gi problems weird but true good luck hope you feel better

[Cindee56]

My son was on Wellbutrin for a long time.  It seemed to help.  It does take a while to get in your system.  You mentioned that your husband *loves his children.*  Are they your children together?  Just wondering.  Are you having a hard time taking care of the children the way you feel?  Does he help?

My husband of 24 yrs. is not the sympathetic type either.  But he has other good points, so I try to think of this when I feel he doesn't care.  He does care, just can't show it and he isn't a talker.  Maybe your husband is like that?  You can try specifically asking him to do certain things, like shopping or cleaning up.  If he continues to refuse to help in any way, then you might have to think about the state of your marriage.  

For the heartburn, have you tried something like Zantac or Maalox or Mylanta?  They help me, esp. the Zantac 150, twice a day.  Also, are you getting enough sleep?  If you are sleep deprived, it would make you more depressed.

[melbatoast64]

Did the Lexapro work for you? Maybe you need to give the wellbutrin time. It's different for everyone.

On another note, I'm sorry you feel that way about your husband. Have you thought of marriage counseling or simply tlaking to him about it?