human nature or am i insane?

[lily12419]

is it normal to get really bad social depression when you havent interacted much with friends for a few days? or they lack communication with you? ive always had this kind of depression since i was younger with finding it hard to make friends.. but its pretty severe when its happening. also its a bit of paranoia etc
another thing is i have extreme hatred towards the girl my ex slept with, she ruined my life yet she has so many friends, a great life etc.. she completely ruined my life and ive never been so down about it, and ive never hated someone so much!
also this boy i like now has been saying he liks me for ages, then has completely stopped talking to me after getting my hopes up.. yet again, depression!

so, so many ****** things have happened recently and i'm a constant heap of sadness, i dont want any prozac or anything because this isnt a constant thing. i just need advise!

i just dont feel normal, im constantly withdrawn and miserable and the fact i suffer with anxiety doesnt help this all at all.

[witheredrose]

I find it hard tok, taking the first move on meeting new people, but i find it easier if i offer them gum first haha :)

[hero65]

that's normal what you are going through but let me say this you have to take charge of your life you have to say " i'm not gonna let anyone bring me down " boys come and go friends come and go as long as you have one person in your life who is your rock who stands by you that's all you need :) and you will be surprised who is your rock ...  i'm 21 my rock is a 82 old lady :)

[lily12419]

thankyou so much for the reply thats meant a lot! it is hard to ant to make the first move to meet new people but i do have to push myself to do it :)

and the girl can stick it, i know not everyones going to be my cup of tea haha!
thanks again x

[witheredrose]

That happens to me a lot when i dont have any social interaction and ive never had a whole lot of luck with friends either but it definitely sounds like a human nature thing. We humans werent meant to be alone we were meant for socializing and it is natural to feel emotionally distressed when you havent.  everybody does and nobody likes to be alone. but sometimes you just got to make the first move by not waiting for it to come to you..you go to itn get out and socialize!
As far as that girl ruining your life goes..dont let her! that gives her power when she knows shes succeeded at somthing!  and that boy isnt worth it if thats what he does to people! there are plenty out there girl, go get em!

[RainLover71]

I think it's human nature--I think you are depressed.I suggest you seek some therapy--all the best.