im 19 years old and lets face it, i've had a ****** childhood, dad died at age 5 raped at age 12 abused all my life molested by my stepdad when i was 14, always told i was a nobody. it sucked. well now im madly in love with somebody and i cant seem to hold my own. ive never physically cheated on him but i have been caught multiple times talking to other people and such. i have completely broken him and im so upset i want to die. i know i dont want to hurt my relationship but yet i mess up, i dont get it. i thinkit could be that im looking for more attention to cover up my lack of confidence but i really dont want to be like this. i want to change more than anything in this world, but i dont know if i can do it alone. its like a double personality and i cant control my emotions. i need help, but i dont think therapy is going to make him trust me, i need to prove that i can change and be different,, and i think this may be step one to that. i want to change, i dont want to hurt people anymore with my liess and my sneakiness, help me please