psychiatrist

[quiet_girl96]

I don't mean to put all my business out there but I'm really depresseddd. My first love messed me over and exposed a picture i sent to him because I wouldn't make out with him and It's been almost 2 years and I still haven't madeout with anyone not even my own boyfriend  </3 I want to really bad but I'm insecure and idk how to. I just feel traumatized even after so long it's been bugging me someone please tell me this is normal? I go to a pyschiatrist but she didn't say anything about having a disorder or something when I told her this.. Am i the only one that went through this? :'(

[quiet_girl96]

Yes!! that helped a lot thank you soo much that kind of got me a little emotional but It's good advice and If you have a daughter then I think she would feel really Important to you if you told her this  :) (starting at the "When you find someone part)

[Poo44clooner]

I think what you are going through is completely normal.  Your boyfriend basically betrayed you by sending those pictures of you just to get what he wanted from you.  Something that you were not ready to give to him.  That's the only time you should give yourself to another is when he is someone special to you and you are ready to give it to him.  You are afraid and don't trust anyone.  When you find someone that really cares for you, and I mean really cares for you and has your best interest then you won't be scared and it will be wonderful.  Give it time to regain your trust and trust your gut instinct. If your gut tells you that it is not the right time then don't do it.  Don't be like those girls that sleep with any guy because the guy tells them to so that they will be liked or be popular or don't have the mind to say no and take care of themselves and not get a possible STD which can sometimes ruin your future by not being able to conceive later in life or perhaps getting pregnant with any guy by accident.
You're a special girl and listen to your instincts and they will guide you.  There is so much in life at your age that you should be concentrating on like your life, education, etc. besides pleasing a guy because he pressures you.  You are a commodity, special and should save yourself for that special one that will eventually come along and then you won't regret not sleeping around like those other girls that are worth a dime a dozen.
Hope this helps.
Angela

[quiet_girl96]

Yess I know this is giving out to much information but I lost my virginity to my boyfriend yesterday .. :)

[remar]

Your very welcome. Are you feeling better?

[quiet_girl96]

Yeah I wasn't sure..thanks for commenting though, I was freaking out that day.

[remar]

I really don't think you have some kind of disorder. I think your just being very cautious after what happened to you before.