Hello,
First of all thank you for reading my question.
I am a 35 yr old male, and I have had herpes for more than 10 years. I have a steady girlfriend, but 5 months ago had a brief encouter with a friend and received oral sex and protected sex. I had a sore throat after that and my throat area was mildly swolen for one month. Afterwards I have developed some rash around the genital area 3 times, each lasting for about 3/4 weeks and goes away. First time it appeared on the tip of my penis about 5mm diameter. It started out with a faint red color and then became bright red. Later it became moist and peeled. After 3/4 weeks it slowly went away. Doctor said it was nothing but I have never seen it before. Tested for all STDs maybe 6 weeks after the encounter and negative. Few weeks later another patch of red rash came at the base of the penis shaft. Again similar symptons and went away in a 3/4 weeks. Saw dermatologist this time and he suspect it is herpes. But I tell him that historically my herpes have always come in the form or individual blisters and goes away within 1 week. I did not do any test. Recently another red patch came up around my pubic hair. This time it's much larger around the size of a quarter. It became quite moist and smelly. Now it's going away after about 3/4 weeks. Saw another dermatologist and he also suspects herpes but culture was negative (maybe i did it too late). Now testing for STDs again but test not back yet.
Could this be a fungal skin infection other than STD? Could it be other STDs since it's all happening in the genital area? I have not had sex with my girlfriend for months now since I am afraid I might pass it to her. Does this sound like something contagious? Thanks so much for your help!