Dr. Rockoff,
Thank you for taking the time to conisder this query.
I am a 24 year old male and had protected sex, and unprotected oral sex, 14 days ago with a new partner. Because the decision was an error in judgment I am concerned that I may have contracted herpes. My concern is based on a red bump, that I discovered today, day 14, at the base of the shaft of my penis. Although a condom was worn, I imagine it did not cover this part of my penis. The bump is red (darker than the rest of the region), and appears to be somewhat oily. However, there is no itching, but it is sensative when touched. What is curious, though, is that when I look close enough I can see what appears to be a small hole, perhaps where a hair once was (there is hair around the bump); nonetheless, the hole is natural. Could this also be an ingrown hair? I should also note that I have been fighting a cold for the past 14 days, as well. I do not have any flu-like symptoms, just a chronic cough and stuffiness. Is it possible that in my panic I am also reading too much into all of this? I concentrate too much on the feeling when I urinate, so as to determine whether it burns, etc. Wouldn't a herpes outbreak be a cluster of blisters?
Thanks, and I look forward to your response. This site is a Godsend for every sexually active male who have made errors in judgment.
I think it is an ingrown hair. Everything you say about it points to its being an ingrown hair--it's being a single lesion, staying the same for a week, the fact that you used a condom, etc. I cannot, however, give you a definitive diagnosis remotely. For that you will need to see a doctor. Since that will take time, I suggest bringing a good-quality photograph (admittedly hard in that area, but still a good idea.) Meantime, I suggest you not confuse the issue by manipulating the bump.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff