I'm a 26 year old male, 5 ft 11 in., 260 pounds, pretty muscular but could definitely stand to lose some weight. About a week ago my girlfriend and I had unprotected sex. We have been together about 6 years, and have unprotected sex very often. I've only been with one other girl and that was about 8 years ago. I'm the only guy my girlfriend has been with. My ex-girlfriend got tested for STDs before we had sex and the test came back clean. Neither me or my girlfriend have been tested, but we have had no std symptoms of any kind and are 100% monogamous.
Within a day or so of our most recent intercourse, I noticed a small itchy bump on the underside of my penis that I initially thought was an insect bite(a mosquito perhaps?). The itchiness became pretty severe, almost like having poison oak or something. The bump soon got bigger and the itch spread. So then I thought to myself "Well, I haven't been around any poison oak. So... great, I must have caught herpes or warts or something. I knew I shouldn't use public toilets!"
The itching persisted, and I ended up scratching the hell out of it in my sleep. Ever since then, the entire shaft of my penis and the top part of my scrotum has been swollen. Everything looks huge now.
My girlfriend said she felt like she might have been fighting off a bladder infection around the time that we had sex, and then through some researching we thought maybe it was a yeast infection that she was fighting off. So we went to the store and bought some Monostat 1 and some vagisil to address the itching. I gotta say, I never dreamed I would ever use those two products in my life!
I applied about 1/4 of the tube of Monostat onto the area in the morning, then when I was about to go to bed I put the rest on. I woke up about a half hour later scratching the hell out of it. It's one of those things where once you start scratching it's reaaaaallly hard to stop. I asked my gf to hand me the vagisil so I could stop the itch. I applied the vagisil and it burned like hell and was still itchy. I couldn't take it so I hopped in the shower and washed everything off.
I was hoping the yeast-infection stuff did it's job even though the full dose wasn't applied for very long. The symptoms seemed to be going away slowly, but then, AGAIN, I woke up scratching and everything swelled up like an x-rated balloon animal.
There is some pain in a few spots, but it's not unbearable. I just assume it's just from the swelling.
Another symptom that I think might be related: around the same time my lips felt a little chapped, then I developed cracks at the corners of my mouth. My lips no longer feel chapped, but the cracks at the corners are still there. The seem to be a little itchy as well.
Of course I would love to go see a doctor, but I'm nearly broke, unemployed, and uninsured. I just bought Monostat 3 and am giving that another go(just applied it about 3 hours ago). Do you think, given the information, that I'm pursuing the right course of action here by applying yeast infection treatment?
I have to admit, my girlfriend has done 90% of the online research since right now I tend get too uncomfortable sitting at the computer for any length of time looking up itch remedies while trying not to think about scratching the itch.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
Dave