I'm not sure whether you have adult acne, rosacea, folliculitis from waxing, or some cobination. I can't explain the lymph glands on the basis of acne.
In any case, you are likely to need antibiotics, most likely both oral and topical. I siggest you hold off on waxing, plucking, or squeezing, and show the pristine picture to a dermatologist. I am confident he or she will be able to help you deal with this problem, which isn't as rare as you might think.