boyfriend has under-the-skin irritation/itch in genital area-- but I don't

[Marisa639]

My boyfriend is complaining of an under-the-skin-prompted itch/irritation after having sex. It is not visable at all. This just started a couple weeks ago but we've been seeing each other many months. He's blaming me although
I have no STDs, no irritations, rash, itch, pain or anything wrong on my "end." When he uses a condom he says the irritation moves up to his scrotum. Did he somehow become allergic to me? Wouldn't that have happened sooner? Please help-- this is ruining my life.

[Marisa639]

Thankyou so very much, Dr. Kaur, for your concern and for your excellent suggestions--they're greatly appreciated.   Sincerely, Marisa639

[Bhupinder Kaur, MD]

Hello,
It can be because of any allergic contact dermatitis to the condom, lubricant, the cosmetics or soap or detergent that you are using. If it appears as a red itchy rash then fungal infection needs to be ruled out.
He can apply an anti-itch cream or lotion to the affected area. Oral antihistamine, such as Benadryl can also be used. He should take a comfortably cool bath and wear smooth-textured cotton socks. You should choose mild soaps without dyes or perfumes and use a mild, unscented laundry detergent when washing clothes, towels and bedding.

Please take a second opinion from a dermatologist if the symptoms persist. Topical and oral steroids may be needed.

It is very difficult to precisely confirm a diagnosis without examination and investigations and the answer is based on the medical information provided. For exact diagnosis, you are requested to consult your dermatologist. I sincerely hope that helps. Take care and please do keep me posted on how you are doing.