Hi Utahmomma,
I'm a momma, too, not a doc, so let the docs call it-- you definitely need to see a good endocrinologist. That said, I have a type-1 daughter and a type-2 husband, and type-2 is rampant in his family, so I'm pretty familiar with both.
You're right that it makes no sense for him to have Type 2. I have heard of a couple of non-overweight people getting type 2 when there's a strong genetic history, but they don't usually get it until well into middle age. In general, you don't see it in skinny people like your son.
It does sound like type 1 that was caught very early, and he could have gained weight because he could be in the middle of a big growth spurt-- maybe he would have gained 15 pounds if it weren't for the blood-sugar issues. If it is type 1, he's headed for insulin.
If it is type-1, it's good news if it was caught very early. My daughter was caught fairly early, though her BG was 450 on diagnosis. She has been excellent about controlling it, and the result was that her honeymoon period went on for what seemed to be a record time. Catching it earlier means a better chance to keep the pancreas producing at least some insulin for a long time, which helps them feel good and stay in control without too much effort. It makes the transition to living with this disease much less stressful.
Good luck, and let us know what happens.