gmoney~whew! such difficult issues here! I don't want to sound like I'm preaching to you, but I'm a mom and have a 17 year old who has diabetes, and our family has had many discussions on the subject of partying!
Let me first say that I don't have statistics handy to specifically answer your question about if pot effects diabetics differently than non-diabetics, but I will research that and get back to you.
I can tell you that smoking marijuana effects your judgement and will impair your ability to make good decisions; doing so really puts you in a position to damage your health. If you forget or choose not (because you're having too much fun partying or unable to make that decision) to take insulin to offset any food you eat you will elevate you blood sugars dramatically ~ that will damage your kidneys, heart and your nerve endings ~ not good things to happen for a diabetic.
Being that you are so newly diagnosed, you should be strictly following your doctor's orders and learning how to live a healthy lifestyle ~ which doesn't include drugs and alcohol. I know you're probably trying to ingnore the fact that you have diabetes, that's pretty normal, especially for a teenager who doesn't want to be different! But the fact is, you DO have diabetes and if you don't take care of yourself starting NOW you will most likely have serious complications later. I don't know whether or not your parents are aware of your drug use, but you might choose to talk with your endocrinologist (privately, if your parents aren't aware) to see if he has any information on marijuana's impact on the diabetic body. Being as open and honest with your doctor is very important in order for them to be able to treat you properly.
I didn't even address the issue of your age regarding drinking alcohol and the fact that smoking pot is illegal at any age . . . I know you know that, but I hope, given the fact that you have now been diagnosed with a chronic illness, you will take a look at how you're treating your body and change your habits. Your parent's don't want to see you suffer from complications ~ they want a long and productive life for you, I'm sure!
I will post again after doing some research for you . . . please let us know how you're doing ~ maybe we'll get some teens who will post comments about how they've handled these types of situations. I wish you all the best!
THanks very much for yuor responses, i read them and they made me think. WHen i brought up this topic, i dont mean that i smoke all the time, or that i do it consinstently. I held off the peer pressure for 15 long years, and its only after i was diagnosed, and when i go to a party i relaized i couldnt drink, that i tried marijuana.I was diagnoses in Late June, right when school ended, and when the partys started:(, Knowing very well i couldnt drink(yes i know its illeagle), i tried pot. I am very careful, none the less. I make sure i eat a full meal, and if i smoke, its after dinner, after all my inslin has been takin, and inbetween snacks. When im high, i dont get the "munchies" so i guess thats a bonus. But im usually carefull. Ive only done it about 4-5 times since then, and when someone offers me ahit, i almsot always reject it, unless i have it planned out.
I am under very good control, i dont think i have had a high, or a low, in 3 months, and i am always quite careful about what i eat. My friends all know i have diabeties, and most of them are aware of what to do in a Low situation.
But anyway, thanks alot, and any other comments or replys will be very mcuh appriciated, and i plan on using this site more often for qusetions and concerns.
So happy to get a bit more info on your situation. It sounds like you're doing a great job to be responsible caring for yourself and your diabetes. It's good that, at most, pot is an occasional thing for you -- that also suggests that you might have other interests and hobbies ... and that's cool for several reasons :-)
There are few situations more devastating than being at the wrong place/party at the wrong time when angry parents or neighbors or cops show up. At that point, there's no amount of pleading that can protect you from those consequences.
Sooo, at age 15ish now -- you're probably a sophomore? Hope you're beginning to think about college -- at least a little bit. Sure it's a coupla years off, but doing good stuff like sports or drama or clubs or volunteer work (which is very very cool for young people) in school can help add some pizzazz in addition to doing your very best in your school subjects. I'm a college professor now. :-)
I'm also so glad you're interested to read stuff here. Y'know, feel free to post comments when you have an opinion about other folks' comments or questions. That's what we're all encouraged to do here -- so we can learn from one another. Newbies (like you -- a new diabetic) and oldies (like me ~35 years!), teens & adults. I think that PumpGirl who writes here is a teen, too.
The www.jdrf.org site has PILES of info, too -- including some special links for teens. Keep taking good care of you -- and great to find & keep close to trusted adults. They'll help you navigate the rocky waters of growing into a strong young adult. (While we adults on this site are a good source of info, in general, when I advise young people to find trusted adults I suggest they look in their school, church, neighborhood, family, etc ... real people who cannot trick teens or hide behind "cyber-personalities.")
All the best, GMoney:-)
While I'm much older than you now, I can *really* relate to your question ... and your evolving maturity to even ASK the question.
In general, this boils down to "how can I have fun with my pals while managing this chronic, potentially debilitating (if I don't take care of me) disease?" I was diagnosed at about your age and I know it can feel lonely that you now have this extra burden that your pals don't (seem to) have. Teens want to fit in with one another, and sometimes other teens don't yet have the compassion to be true friends. You might already have had the experience of a "friend" dumping you for some frivolous reason, even before diabetes; often it's a "cooler" friend comes along, a rumor, or or or.
When I was just a few years older than you and already in college, I used pot fairly often for "fun" times. While the drug itself didn't seem to affect my blood sugar, it pretty well destroyed my judgment and willpower to say no to snacks. Thus, it became harder for me to "have fun" cuz someplace in the back of my mind, I was so very scared. Since I was older and my friends were, too, I was able to talk about my issues and I was SHOCKED to find out that anohter girl was dealing with a serious health issue, too and that on the whole they were very interested, compassionate and protective of me. Of course, the hard-core partiers were threatened a bit my not wanted to continue on that path -- and gradually I realized that, despite my desire that they like me ... they didn't.
How odd it seems (as a grownup now) that their so-called friendship was apparently only based on my wilingness to break the law with them, and to risk ending up in the ER "for them." I'm certain that THOSE folks would have been completely useless if I'd slipped into a coma from being either too high or low.
I know from my own teen that "warnings" about what might happen in the future seem unrelated to what she & her pals think about. She lost one friend to a DWI crash this year; another is forever mentally incapacitated due to a drug-related accident that didn't kill him but caused severe, permanent brain damage. My teen has permanent facial scar and hip pain from a drug-related auto crash, where she was thrown from a car.
The point seems to be that eventually, in our ways (thru tragic personal experience or thru the ability to learn from others' tragic personal experiences), we realize that lifestyles based on self-medication for pain, stress, and yearning-to-fit in ... they can never bring us happiness and success.
Such happiness and feelings of success require us to deal a bit with our demons (teens have lots of them: divorces, step-families, fears in schools, wondering about the future, money, security) and diabetic teens face even more (will I die from this? [not when we take care of ourselves :-) ], will I feel better? what will my pals think? who ARE my real pals? who'll help me when I need help? who can I talk to about all this? ...
I encourage you to find a trusted grownup in your life and gradually contront & work thru the things that're stressing you. You can create a wonderful, rich, healthy life surrounded by PILES OF FRIENDS who care about you as much as you care about them and will BE THERE to encourage you thru the hard times and help you celebrate your successes -- wihtout risking danger.
I hope you choose to take some of this to heart -- it comes from mine...
My son was diagnosed at eight and had alot of issues with friends dealing with his diabetes. When he was your age, he also tried pot once and awhile and found he couldn't tell when he was getting low. Thank goodness he never had an episode that required medical intervention. I just spoke with him about your question and dealing with friends. He was lucky that he had a few very close people that really cared about him. I'm sure you do too. On the positive side, my son gave me a different perspective on true friendship. When he turned 21 he became the designated driver when everyone went to clubs to dance. He is very proud of this and his friends are greatful. g, he also told me to tell you that while he is a little older than you now, don't let so called "friends" influence your behavior. Your diabetes and health should be your number one concern. True friends will stick with you. As a Mom, if you find your having problems with drugs or alcohol, please tell someone your concerns. If you don't feel free to talk to your parents ( I hope you can), then maybe a councelor at school, your doctor or a helpline. Let us know how your doing and if we can help in anyway, we will.
Thanks for the postive comments. As for what i plan on doing in the future, i plan on going to film school. Me and my buddy's joke about how im alaways gonna be the desgnated driver, and thats fine with me, i would rater get home safe, then crash while drunk anyway. I know that in the future, i am able to have 2-3 beers while chillin with some buddy's, but i cant get drunk, which is fine with me, as i talked to a few of my clsoe friends today, who told me im not missing out on much. Most of my friends support me. Ive decided that if i go to a party with a few ppl, ill have my own kinda fun, ill sip on a beer, 1-2, ntohign to affect me in anyway, and just laugh at the drunks walking by, lol.
I also thought id bring something up. I have a buddy of mine, who ive known for a few years, who is also a diabetic. I look at him as what NOT too do. He Drinks, Does Mush, Smokes Weed, Smokes Cig's, Dosnt care what he eat's, etc. I can see that guy going blind when he's 20. He crashed at my house one night, and his sugar before he went to bed was 17(i know u americans use it in higher ratings) While mine was 5. I just look at him, see what he does, and try to do the opiosit