HI,
I agree that weight loss will take some time(doing it safely, that is). You have done a great job already, and you seem to be following a good diet plan right now. Keep your chin up! It will happen, but it does take work.
Exercise as much as you can. Walking is great, so even if you cannot get to a gym a brisk walk for about 30-50 minutes atleast 4 times a week will help tremendously.
I know this will cost but it may be worth it: many of my friends and patients have had great success with formal programs like Weight Watchers, so if it is an option I would encourage you to look into those.
There are diet medications that are approved for use, but they have potential side effects that need to be considered(and still need you to follow diet plans etc). Ask you doctor about Meridia and Orlistat. Alli is now in stores and over the counter, so you can check into that as well.
And definitely, stress does make things worse. It is tough with a little one regardless, and your situation has some additional challenges. Breathe, and try as best you can. erelax when the opportunity, no matter how rare, comes your way.
Good luck and take care. You are doing great.
God love you! Yes, we do lose weight slower, but 5lbs in 6 weeks is terrific! You don't want to dump weight because then you'll be falling into low blood sugars which have a much more immediate, dangerous effect. Based on what my dietician told me, your on the low end of the calorie spectrum for your diet, so you're already doing the most you can. Exercise is essential to diabetic control. While they now recommend 1 hour of aerobic exercise a day (walking), I have found that whatever it is, I'm better off doing something I know I will stick with rather than burning out on a routine that can't be held up come a change in weather or whatever.
Stress definitely plays havoc with blood sugars. I'd say raising a two-year-old autistic child counts as stress. Having an autoimmune disease can't be any picnic either. If you have a man in your life you doesn't like you fat, tell him to watch the baby for an hour while you go for a walk. It will help relieve your stress level too! If you're on your own, just do what you can. If you ever have someone offer to help you if you need it, tell them they can watch the baby for one hour. You go for the walk, relieve your stress, get your heart rate going and burn those carbs.
I'd say give yourself a break and follow your doctor's advice, concentrate on getting well. Be patient with the weight loss, it will come. You have enough to deal with.