To add onto that. We have had great moments since the actual event a year ago. We have got very close emotionally and spent 5/7 days together every week just about for this past year. His family has even told me if it never works they still love me and couldn't imagine their lives without me. He has told me since the event he wanted to marry me and we've talked about our future together. We look at colleges together and took senior pics together. I'm so confused on why he's doing this now
Hi there. Welcome. I'm very sorry you've gone though a break up and have such hurt over it. All I can say is that he's ended it. He stated his reasons and even though they don't make sense to you, they do him. You will maybe never fully understand but it is what it is.
I had a friend that had a boyfriend she adored. He had a fantasy of a threesome. He talked about it all the time. He kind of wanted to have one with her and another girl they knew. It happened! After a year, he broke up with her and part of the reason why was because he couldn't envision marrying and having kids with a woman that had had sex with a girl! Like, how unfair is that? But he is choosing his life mate and knew that he wasn't going to get past that sexual encounter. So, he broke it off. Right or wrong, he was doing what was best for him.
So, my suggestion is to let it go as best you can and accept that he's ended it. Begin the process of trying to heal and move on. peace