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Do all men cheat??

I dont want to sound completely ridiculous and naive...but I'm serious here. Do ALL men cheat?! I mean, is it not possible for a man to love and cherish a woman so much that he'd commit to her 100%? Do they not understand how incredibly painful and hurtful it is to be betrayed by the one they LOVE?? I have been in two serious, fully-committed relationships - one of which was an engagement - and I couldnt even FATHOM the idea of ever cheating, lying, or knowingly hurting my partner's feelings. I have been lied to and betrayed by my ex-fiance and I cannot get over the "Why's" and "How could you's".  Will I ever find someone who actually cares?
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484465 tn?1532214032
"Do ALL men cheat?!"  the reason so many men fall into the 'all men' generalized category is b/c most men are dumb (sorry men lol)  so that's why it's safe to say yes, they all do
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nope. girls have an easier time cheating in my opinion for a couple of reasons. most guys will not care if a girl is in a relationship if they don't know the guy, and even if they're friends. and... a girl can go to a bar and find a guy no problem where as a guy has to work for it 90% of the time. if the guy already has it he won't want to work for it.

i have never cheated, but have been cheated on so i guess when it happens to you, you get the feeling everyone cheats
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Oh, I'm not at all denying that women cheat too! I've had gal friends that have cheated and I know it's not uncommon. I NEVER have and coudnt even fathom the thought of it.
I just am lost and hopeless right now and am hoping and praying that I will meet a man someday that will love me and be true....
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237152 tn?1206651036
I'm a man and I have never cheated on my wife, nor will I ever.  I have never cheated on any g'f's from the past either.  I have been cheated on.  So no, not all men cheat, and yes, more women than you realize cheat.  In my experience I have seen more women cheat than men.  True!
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145992 tn?1341345074
I wish I could answer that question for you.  I thought I had a good one but you know what he cheated.  I think there are some good men out there but I think for the most part a lot of them do cheat.  I hate to say that and I'm sure I will get h e l l for thinking that way but I don't have much faith in them.  But don't be fooled a lot of women cheat as well.
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637356 tn?1301924822
Not all men cheat and not only is it men that cheat. Some do it for the excitement, some for the chase, and some because they are missing something at home. Not saying the last one pertains to you but just saying.

Yes you will find someone out there that will love you fully and will not cheat on you at all!
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