I wonder if there is just too much noise and confusion there for your son..
Maybe he seeks a stiller calmer retreat.
Thanks for the help, I like the line "when he's good others will like him better" I'll try that line on him. The daycare is good they just aren't use to children with DS, I have my doubt we will be there next summer, Not because the DS but because he will be 14. He is getting very independent. Thanks again
We had some problems with our son also at that age, he is showing his independance and that can be directed in a better way by explaing to him that when he is good the others will like him better. This needs alot of repeated instructions, the punishment is only if he understands the why of it and if it really fits the offense. do some investigating about the Day Care, are the others being given preferiential treatment, you might like to spend a time there to find out just what is going on. Good luck