Leave him and worry about the aftermath/consequences later. I left my verbally abusive ex-bf and my only regret was that I should have done it sooner. Men like that will get theirs in the end. If their karma does not get them back while living, they will still get what they deserve in the end--this I know.
Wow my husband would choke me for every time we argue and now I think am suffering from memory lost and my mind will wounded and go so far sometimes I get scared when it happens.he don't even say sorry my neck hurts he also would look for something to attempt to throw at me or hit me its not a good feeling.I just want out of this relationship
I was choked 4-9-2017 by my husband. He choked me for almost a minute, my lymph nodes are very swollen, it hurts to move my neck and I have bruising on my neck. He belittles me and makes me feel like trash, he makes all the money so nothing is mine to him. Its hard to get away from someone who you are dependant upon (stay at home mom of two for the past 7yrs) I would leave if I could, just feel so trapped since I dont have any money, job, to support my kids.
Was choked/strangled in Oct 2016, it is now Feb 2017 and I still have flashbacks of the incident and am suffering affects of it. My throat feels like there is a peice in it that sometimes gets stuck. My voice is different, its harsher sounding at times and I cant sing and hold a note as long as I used to. PLEASE go to a Dr as soon as you can, damage can be lasting up, and it can lead to scarring which resulted in my changed voice. No one has the right to make you feel like your life is easy to take away, and no one has the right to take your voice away. PLEASE see a dr, lie if need be and say you were wrestling, but just.go.to.a.doctor!!!!!!
This is clearly an old post but my boyfriend tends to like choking during sex. I'm quite submissive (feel like I have no choice either way) and "allow" him to. He doesnt do it too long or hard but 2 days ago he literally choked me out and I told him to stop and he thought I was "joking" and I literally choked on my spit and like.... It was the worst experience ever. Yesterday I realized a sore neck and kinda sore throat but thought nothing of it. Now today, 2 days after, I cannot swallow my spit comfortably and ive been drinking tea since waking up. I don't wanna tell a Dr but I'm not sure if this pain is serious or not BC I never felt this before. ):
I got choked for the first time on 6/2/16, and will be the last time! I ran to next door, they called police for me and he was arrested. Now I am waiting for court day. I went to ER and Urgent care to get examed, they didn't seem to care much but x-ray my arm fully. My neck/throat is uncomfortable, I am having more and more hard time swallow. Sad to hear so many out there experienced these?! I am going to schedule for my primary physician to check the whole thing for me. I will make him pay!
I got choked by my dad and my eyes started throbbing and they feel like they are popping out of my head and it looks that way too a little bit
I realize that this is an old post, but I feel that somebody has to let you know that yes, it is a very offensive (insensitive) question to post. We are people that have gone through very traumatic and life altering experiences & trying to find answers for the serious physical (not mentioning the emotional) after-effects.
You are lucky that you don't know the feeling during or after being choked first hand. If you are doing research for a book, I suggest talking to doctors, review medical journals, ufc fighters, etc. You could even post a request such as "I am an author doing research for an upcoming novel. Is there anybody who has been through the experience of being choked that is willing to share the after effects with me?".
I was choked 10 days ago hard .I have really bad neck pain as I've got a weak neck anyway , I too have had trouble swallowing maybe it's where my throat is still swollen .For those that think it's easy just walking away were at the biggest risk of being killed when were planing to or have just left .
Scared when realising he passed out Via lack of breath, Pain when swallowing, bloodshot eye or eyes, racing heart, fear that the pain from swallowing will lead to throat closing.
Thats my experience in a nut shell.
Not very pleasent.
Hope this helped.
Hello, I am writing a book and a character ends up getting choked (the intention is to kill) and ends up fainting and waking up 4 hours later. I was wondering what would the symptoms be? (Sorry if I'm being offenses, please tell me if I am. So sorry but I can't find info anywhere else.
Everyone needs to get out of these relationships. This is insane. Of course you'll have trouble swallowing after being choked. Go to the ER, have his @ss arrested, and never go back.
RUN! that is not love . if you think you can help him by staying your wrong get out ,SAFELY then tell him if you choose to still be with him that he needs anger management help for his miss placed anger then yall can be together!!! ive been in a abusive relationship for 8 years and i am just now coming to this conclusion..... do whats best for you! <3
I was choked recently, half my face is swollen and bruised, I also have hearing loss in my left ear. Not sure if it is from being choked tossed around or punched...will my hearing come back? Or should I get checked out
Did anyone have any major throat problems that continued long after the choking?
I had an incident with my ex-fiance today, although what occurred was the last straw. I am one of the women that was with a man who like to have bipolar trips and get very violent. As well as stay with this man because I loved him and things would get better. WRONG!! Until i had very a long talk with a close friend of mine who showed, told, and let me mentally know and feel the strength I had to just no longer care or put up with the BS. Things got violent from slapping to punching and choking, all to me. and all above the chest region. I was choked by his forearm and it got really scary I am a petite woman, and he is a 6'6" 300 lb man bearing his weight on my neck. It wasn't for a very long time although my neck is very sore close to the bottom of my neck and towards the sides. It does not hurt to swallow i just feel like i could throw up. Will marks and pain increase over several days because this is horrible.
My boyfriend chocked me twice today really hard my throat is sore and I'm scared that the pain going to get worse.
it has been afew days but I was choked and now I have had such a hard time swallowing. this is not the first time but I was not choked that hard the first few. I am not into that stuff. we were arguing and then he comes at me like he wants to kill me.
I feel like the hard to swallow thing is a physical reaction to daily anxiety. I feel like my esophagus need adjusted sometime and it's crunchy. I had neck problems before really being choked hard.
This is ironic. I complained to my doctor that my throat feels achy and as if it is closing up and is scratchy and it has been hard to swallow. I have also been hoarse. I wrap up tight in the cold weather to be careful not to get sick, since I am taking anti rejection drugs from receiving a heart transplant a little over a year ago. A few days past 3 weeks ago, my long time now ex-boyfriend went off into some kind of fanatical rage and choked my larynx by depression for about 30 to 40 seconds. I thought I was going to die. I called the police and now that he has been arrested, all of a sudden he has voluntary memory lapse of choking me. When it happened, I went to the emergency room to get checked out since he had also hit me with a fisted hand to the face several times. My right eye had the most damage and I thought it was specifically from the strikes to my face. I had multiple people inform me that this is what happens when a person is choked and the blood vessels in your eyes begin to burst. I have also experienced a blood clot in some mucus coughed from my throat. I will need to contact my doctor again to find out what toll this might take on my new transplant. I did a search about the clot because nothing like that has ever happened before and I figured it might have something to do with the choking incident.
My bf just choked me 3 times & now on the left side of my neck is in pain .. Whats wrong ??
it is not a waste of time honey being strangled is a serious thing your neck is very important its connected to your heart and brain i have a bad heart from being strangled by my sons dad get it checked xxxx
Same thing happen to me. I was choked and now I have bad neck pain and a very hard time swallowing... sometimes is seems as if my throat will get locked up. Thinking about going to the hospital, but wanted to research before wasting my time in the ER.