miscarried @ 18

[keekee810]

I was diagnosed with endo. @ 17 y/o. At 18 I miscarried and didn't even know that I was pregnant...(due to irregular periods). I was about 8 weeks and had a d&c afterwards. Now my concern: Will I ever get a chance to have a baby? My doc. said that it is not as bad...I have light scarring on my (left) ovary. Right now I'm not ready for any kids, but I would like to have a child later in life (maybe 2 years from now). The weird thing is that is that the guy I have been dating wants a child. He has one daughter (6 y/o)...and states that he wants another, but I am not ready for kids. Wow! I actually thought that I was 1 in a million dealing w/ this.

[Faith690]

Hi Keekee810

A few questions:  Are you on a contraceptive pill or any other treatment? How long have you guys been dating,how well do you know him? And are you planning on getting married to him? How old is he?
My doctor also told me that mine wasn't that bad and also had light scarring only on my right side and little on the left. He said I will have no problems trying to conceive.

I just want to get to know you better.

I am 19 turning 20 tomorrow. I desparaetly want a child now, especially after I found out about my endo. What the difference is is that I got married this year April. so I have that security that my man can't leave me & he will support me! But he isn't ready neither am I if I really look close at myself. So I am planning on waiting for 2 years aswell. But I have n worries because I have faith in God that He will give me my children in His right time! I have faith that there will be enough time for me to have my 3 children I very much want.

Rachel

[faithbaby28]

If you are not ready and you know that then dont have a baby right now. Best to wait until you have your health, finances and life under control. I wish you the best and always listen to your mind and body!  :-)