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Cures for Delayed ejaculation?
Here we go... I'm 15, masturbate regularly (once a day on average) and have recently discovered i suffer from delayed ejaculation. I have no problems getting erections (if anything they come too often and out of nowhere) and i can climax whilst masturbating from anywhere between 15- 60 (Or more if i wasn't scared for the welfare of my penis) minutes (Honestly, it's not as fun as it sounds). I feel that i can get put off really easily whilst having sex or masturbating by the smallest of things and then i have to get going all over again (but the erection still remains after i get put off). When i lost my virginity, i didn't ejaculate, i didn't think there was anything wrong with me at the time but after further sexual encounters i figured it out. I have however, ejaculated through vaginal sex since but have failed to during oral. I personally reckon it's psychological because i'm not on any meds, not suffered any pelvis or spinal damage that i know of and on occasion (5-6 times out of around 10-11) i have ejaculated with a partner. I was wondering if any of you guys had any suggestions for treatments available or just some advice from other sufferers? Thanks for listening to my ramblings, comments would be appreciated :)
Mate have you had any luck with your delayed ejaculation? i'm 19 and in the same boat its very frustrating. i'm trying to find some others who have overcome the condition. i cant afford treatment or rather i don't want to tell my parents i cant ***! i would like to find an online support group does anyone know of message boards or forums just for guys with anorgasmia? i did find curedelayedejaculation.com which has some decent information but im wondering if anyone knows of anything else out there. i want to find an answer that is cheap and easy but that might be hard! maybe i'm asking too much. has anyone tried the fleshlight or hypnosis mp3's? i think these are my best options right now. i'm just glad to find out other people have the same problem as me and i'm not alone but i would like to hear from others.
Well i don't think i'm as far as depression, but I'm sure feeling pretty incompetent. It seems as though my penis just doesn't know what the heck is going on. Tried to have sex a few times the other night, I've got another problem which may or may not be connected to the delayed ejaculation. As per normal i can get an erection fine, but when i start to have sex it goes all limp... like straight away. I'm guessing it's cos i don't get enough feeling or something? But how much feeling do i need god dammit?!?!?!
Argh this is so annoying why can i not just be normal...
Thanks for the help and sorry the the rant lol
Argh this is so annoying why can i not just be normal...
Thanks for the help and sorry the the rant lol
Inability to get an erection is frequently the only criticism.
In cases of penile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and spermatorrhoea may be creating.
Depression regularly accompanies impotence. Severe depression can direct to impotence and impotence can lead to depression. It factory both behavior.
In cases of penile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and spermatorrhoea may be creating.
Depression regularly accompanies impotence. Severe depression can direct to impotence and impotence can lead to depression. It factory both behavior.
Yeah, lemme know man, i'm scared viagra will make me last even longer, which really isn't good in our situation.
Yeah i'm seriously hoping it's the alcohol. I was thinking it all might be connected psychologically, but i don't know what i'm thinking that is making me not perform to the max.... Oh dear god, yes Viagra scares the **** outta of me at this age. I'm not even gonna consider that at this point lol.
Yeah, i'll keep you posted.
Mmm i've had it a couple times, and i think it's the alcohol, doesn't do you any good in the bedroom, i mean, improves your confidence n tht i'm sure you know, but tht's about all the good it does, try less or no alcohol, should help, or viagra maybe? If it gets worse, i've never tried it, scares me tbh lol
Mmm i've had it a couple times, and i think it's the alcohol, doesn't do you any good in the bedroom, i mean, improves your confidence n tht i'm sure you know, but tht's about all the good it does, try less or no alcohol, should help, or viagra maybe? If it gets worse, i've never tried it, scares me tbh lol
Well that'll be interesting to hear what a psychologist has to say, keep me updating if he/she has anything worthwhile :). Yeah I'm really gonna try and cut down on the masturbating thing. My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time last night..... another problem. Not sure if you get this as well but, i can easily enough get an erection (sometimes to easy lol) but then as soon as we start actually having sex it goes.... limp. This become increasingly frustrating and extremely embarrassing. The alcohol i consumed earlier in the night may have had an effect on it but i really don't want that to happen all the time. Her mum's going away next weekend and it's just gonna be me and her staying at her mums and it'll kinda ruin the whole thing if i can even keep hard.
Sorry for the long one
Take care and hope everything is going well.
Sorry for the long one
Take care and hope everything is going well.
No problem mate, and yeah i think we definately have the same problem. I might be going to see a psychologist soon, see what they think, a friend of mine has an OCD and she really helped him, so i might go give it a whirl. And about the masturbation, i know, it's hard to reduce how much you do it, but once you can control it a little more, i think you'll find some other benefits too, i mean, i have way more energy, i can work out for longer and i actually feel like doing excersise, and i feel like doing my school work and getting it out of the way rather than the usual "meeh, cba" reaction. Little bit of an incentive for me.
Good talkin to you :)
Good talkin to you :)
Yeah i get that same thing with the public toilets as well, it may have a connection.
I know i should try and not masturbate for as long as possible but i find it incredibly hard. Because i don't get to ejaculate when i'm "with" her i seem to have to do it by myself.... I feel like i have a big problem because it's like a really big need and i always seem to do it at the worst times, like the night before i'm seeing her. After i finish masturbating i feel terrible - embarrassed, dissapointed, pathetic- because i know that i wont be able to do it with her properly the next time.
Maybe it's time to tell her soon.... hope she is as understanding as your girlfriend was....
Thanks a lot for your support :)
I know i should try and not masturbate for as long as possible but i find it incredibly hard. Because i don't get to ejaculate when i'm "with" her i seem to have to do it by myself.... I feel like i have a big problem because it's like a really big need and i always seem to do it at the worst times, like the night before i'm seeing her. After i finish masturbating i feel terrible - embarrassed, dissapointed, pathetic- because i know that i wont be able to do it with her properly the next time.
Maybe it's time to tell her soon.... hope she is as understanding as your girlfriend was....
Thanks a lot for your support :)
Yeah i think it may be psychological for me too, i dunno if this is the same for you, but sometimes i struggle to **** in a urinal when there's someone else in the urinal next to me, it may be completely different to my delayed ejaculation, but there could be a link.
And about your Mrs. Personally, i'd tell her to prevent her getting offended. I told my girlfriend, and thankfully, she was really understanding about it and things are on the up.
And try not masturbating for as long as possible, then when your with your girlfriend, you'll be really up for it and in theory, ready to burst, things are pretty early for me atm, but just give it a go, might find that it'll be way better and easier to ejaculate.
Good luck mate, lemme know if you find a miracle cream or something ;)
And about your Mrs. Personally, i'd tell her to prevent her getting offended. I told my girlfriend, and thankfully, she was really understanding about it and things are on the up.
And try not masturbating for as long as possible, then when your with your girlfriend, you'll be really up for it and in theory, ready to burst, things are pretty early for me atm, but just give it a go, might find that it'll be way better and easier to ejaculate.
Good luck mate, lemme know if you find a miracle cream or something ;)
I haven't masturbated in a while now and we don't have sex that often, maybe once every two weeks.
I've read up on it a bit and it seems as though the main problem is psychological. I don't feel that i really have any psychological problems but maybe i do? Who knows...
The main thing i'm worried about is that my girlfriend thinks she's doing something wrong even though i keep on telling her she's not as it does feel really good. I would rather not tell her that i have a problem but it may be the only way to go...
Thanks for the help :)
I've read up on it a bit and it seems as though the main problem is psychological. I don't feel that i really have any psychological problems but maybe i do? Who knows...
The main thing i'm worried about is that my girlfriend thinks she's doing something wrong even though i keep on telling her she's not as it does feel really good. I would rather not tell her that i have a problem but it may be the only way to go...
Thanks for the help :)
The more you masturbate/have sex, the longer it will take you to ejaculate. That's perfectly normal.
Some drugs (e.g. some antidepressants) can cause ejaculatory disorders, so make sure you're not taking any of those.
If the situation persists, go see a urologist, but I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
Good luck!
Some drugs (e.g. some antidepressants) can cause ejaculatory disorders, so make sure you're not taking any of those.
If the situation persists, go see a urologist, but I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.
Good luck!
Finally someone who is in the same boat as me. I am 16 and seem to have the exact same symptoms, i can easily enough get an erection and keep it but i don't ejaculate while have sex or in foreplay activities. I have a feeling it may be because i used to masturbate pretty often but have stopped doing that and it still hasn't got any better.
I fear it may be getting in the way of my relationship as me and my girlfriend can't ever have satisfactory sex.
Sorry i don't have a resolution but maybe this will just show that there may be others out there the same as us.
Please help!
I fear it may be getting in the way of my relationship as me and my girlfriend can't ever have satisfactory sex.
Sorry i don't have a resolution but maybe this will just show that there may be others out there the same as us.
Please help!
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