I'm a 41-year old man. I've been having ed problems on and off for a while. I apparently have low testosterone, and have been using Androgel for that. I've also tried, Viagra, and it works like a CHARM pretty much every time.
Here's the thing: I'm a very sexually open person, and I've recently experimented with a few threesomes and foursomes. In each of those cases, despite using the Viagra, I was unable to get an erection. There's no doubt, I was tremendously nervous and worried about it going into the experience. In each case, I later on spent time alone with my partner 1-on-1, and was able to maintain an erection for a long time. So, the problem is extremely specific to that 3+ experimenting situation.
The thing is, I really enjoyed it and want to keep doing it, but of course, it would be a million times more fun if I could get/maintain an erection.
Does anyone have any suggestions for things I could try? I tried doubling the dose of Viagra (I normally only need half a pill), but no dice. I tried a glass of wine to "loosen up," and that didn't make a difference. I'd love to find a "magic bullet" that just makes it WORK like Viagra seems to do in one-on-one scenarios, but I realize that may not happen.