I'm a mess... :( PLEASE help (22 year old male)

[Justin10]

I have a very weak stream and it takes forever to excrete all of my urine. I have to shake like 10 times otherwise it drips all in my underpants. I always get soft erection and have failed sexual attempts 3 different times when not nervous at all. My stool is skinny and small when it was huge during my childhood.. I never feel like I get all of it out.. Most of it for that matter.. I am way too young for this **** and dont have money to visit the doctor right now.. Somebody please tell me what in the world is wrong with me..

[Med Help]

Dear Justin10,

Dr. Epp is a highly skilled Psychologist, but she is not a Urologist and therefore cannot answer your medical questions.  We suggest you post your question in our Urology Forum.

MedHelp

[Justin10]

Always soft.. always.. i can get myself off no problem, but when it's time to go, soft and useless.. it is disheartening because my confidence is shot and i have never been low in self esteem by any means.. just a weak soft erection.. i cant think of anything i have done to my body to cause this.. im not overweight.. haven't taken any drugs and barely drink at all... diet is in check and im active for my age.. the only things i have taken is multivitamin supplements from different brands and the same with fish oil.. heeeelllppp!

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Dear Justin: It sounds like you have several concerns, some of which may be unrelated.

Regarding erections: You state you "always" have a soft erection. Is that situational? For instance, when you wake in the morning, is your erection firm? How about during self-pleasuring? Or is this just happening with a partner? These circumstances are important in determining whether your problem might be physical.

Regarding your other questions: Please post them in the Urology Expert Forum, where the doctor can give you some answers. Good luck.