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Masturbation
Hi Sir/Mam,
I am 20 year old boy. and my issue is masturbation. when i am 13 years old, my freinds(class fellows) taught me about masturbation and said me to do it permanently, daily or more than 1 time in a day. i was inncent and i was not know that its write or wrong. i started it and after a very short time i became a permanent masterbater (i do masturbation permanently or some time more than 2 or three time / day). this is a very enjoyable for me its great and relaxed feeling which i feel after masterbation. in the starting days (when i was 13 year old) when i masterbate no semen and other type of liquid come out from bladder (but like a water or urine few drops of liquid come out) but when i was enter in my 15 year age then first time in my life 1 drop of semen come out i was very happy because my class fellowos was saying me that this is a sign of power, infact man power. then I increase the number of masturbation / day now i do it 2 or 3 sometimes 5 times in a day. after some more time it became my habit now i do it daily...
now i am 20 year old some people says me that its wrong, because of my history (which i said you above) i will finished, i could not be able to born a baby. i am not a man, i am weak and many more....
i am very sad and do not know wht i do. today i do masturbation 4-6 time in a month, because of all critisism some time this is impossible for me to control on my erection. now please say me what i do. Am i leave it or continue it. please i am very hopeless, help me....
History: Bladder size: 5 Inch, Angle: straight, Shape: turn to the left.
I am 20 year old boy. and my issue is masturbation. when i am 13 years old, my freinds(class fellows) taught me about masturbation and said me to do it permanently, daily or more than 1 time in a day. i was inncent and i was not know that its write or wrong. i started it and after a very short time i became a permanent masterbater (i do masturbation permanently or some time more than 2 or three time / day). this is a very enjoyable for me its great and relaxed feeling which i feel after masterbation. in the starting days (when i was 13 year old) when i masterbate no semen and other type of liquid come out from bladder (but like a water or urine few drops of liquid come out) but when i was enter in my 15 year age then first time in my life 1 drop of semen come out i was very happy because my class fellowos was saying me that this is a sign of power, infact man power. then I increase the number of masturbation / day now i do it 2 or 3 sometimes 5 times in a day. after some more time it became my habit now i do it daily...
now i am 20 year old some people says me that its wrong, because of my history (which i said you above) i will finished, i could not be able to born a baby. i am not a man, i am weak and many more....
i am very sad and do not know wht i do. today i do masturbation 4-6 time in a month, because of all critisism some time this is impossible for me to control on my erection. now please say me what i do. Am i leave it or continue it. please i am very hopeless, help me....
History: Bladder size: 5 Inch, Angle: straight, Shape: turn to the left.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
My Dear Hamza
You are most welcome. My wish for you is long life, great love and yummy sex. Dr. J
You are most welcome. My wish for you is long life, great love and yummy sex. Dr. J
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello.
It's time you made your OWN decisions--not based on your friends or what you've heard, but on accurate data. You need facts, not misinformation. Everything you've heard is based on myths, not facts. And your bladder size, etc. are irrelevant.
Here's some information for you. Read it and relax.
First, there's no scientific evidence that there is any such thing as “over-masturbation” just as there’s no such thing as “under-masturbation.” What most of these non-experts mean by “over-masturbation” is anything more than what THEY do or are comfortable with.
Let’s note the difference between a “belief” and a demonstrable fact. There are people who believe that the earth is flat, in spite of all evidence to the contrary. Similiarly, many cultures have myths that associate semen with strength. None of these myths is based on any scientific research.
One reason these myths about semen and strength still prevail is that after orgasm, there is a period in which men cannot have another orgasm--the "Refractory Period." Think of it as a time when your body is resting in order to build up its ability to orgasm again, if you will. It's just a rest period, and nothing to worry about. This period varies from man to man, depending on age, physical health and other factors. It’s a biological process, and has nothing to do with how often you self-pleasure, etc.
Let’s talk about what we DO know about self-pleasuring.
It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about our sexual response cycle, as well as the surest way men to learn orgasmic control. If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.
Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?
And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!
Self-pleasuring is a part of who you are sexually—for your whole life, not just when you don’t have a partner. People self-pleasure from birth to death, when they’re alone and when they’re partnered. It’s just one of many options we have as sexual beings. It’s not better or worse than partner sex, just different—like steak is different than chicken.
Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality. So please stop torturing yourself, accept your sexuality as a gift and start enjoying life.
Your body is working fine—it’s your heart/brain that’s getting in the way. For more information, I highly recommend the book “The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. It’s widely available online, both used and in paperback, and is an invaluable resource. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
It's time you made your OWN decisions--not based on your friends or what you've heard, but on accurate data. You need facts, not misinformation. Everything you've heard is based on myths, not facts. And your bladder size, etc. are irrelevant.
Here's some information for you. Read it and relax.
First, there's no scientific evidence that there is any such thing as “over-masturbation” just as there’s no such thing as “under-masturbation.” What most of these non-experts mean by “over-masturbation” is anything more than what THEY do or are comfortable with.
Let’s note the difference between a “belief” and a demonstrable fact. There are people who believe that the earth is flat, in spite of all evidence to the contrary. Similiarly, many cultures have myths that associate semen with strength. None of these myths is based on any scientific research.
One reason these myths about semen and strength still prevail is that after orgasm, there is a period in which men cannot have another orgasm--the "Refractory Period." Think of it as a time when your body is resting in order to build up its ability to orgasm again, if you will. It's just a rest period, and nothing to worry about. This period varies from man to man, depending on age, physical health and other factors. It’s a biological process, and has nothing to do with how often you self-pleasure, etc.
Let’s talk about what we DO know about self-pleasuring.
It’s the surest way to orgasm and the most effective way to learn about our sexual response cycle, as well as the surest way men to learn orgasmic control. If you feel you come too quickly, the surest way to slow down is to teach yourself a new pattern via self-pleasuring.
Another advantage is self-knowledge: How can you show a partner what you like if you don’t know yourself?
And the #1 reason for self-pleasuring: it’s fun!
Self-pleasuring is a part of who you are sexually—for your whole life, not just when you don’t have a partner. People self-pleasure from birth to death, when they’re alone and when they’re partnered. It’s just one of many options we have as sexual beings. It’s not better or worse than partner sex, just different—like steak is different than chicken.
Remember that all our scientific data show that the people who take responsibility for their OWN pleasure have the best sex lives and rate themselves as happiest about their sexuality. So please stop torturing yourself, accept your sexuality as a gift and start enjoying life.
Your body is working fine—it’s your heart/brain that’s getting in the way. For more information, I highly recommend the book “The New Male Sexuality” by Bernie Zilbergeld, Ph.D. It’s widely available online, both used and in paperback, and is an invaluable resource. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
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Mam, one more question is that, how can i increase my sexual health or power for my sexual activities. i mean that some kind of diet or other, plz tell me
Mam, one more question is that, how can i increase my sexual health or power for my sexual activities. i mea that some kind of diet or oher, plz tell me.
Janice M Epp, PhD. thank u mam thank you so much, you don't know that what u do today. Mam you saved my life. Now i am very happy Mam, really mam really. In this time i am tearful but these tears are the sign of happiness. really mam you are great. You are Great Mam. Thak You.....................
thank u mam thank you so much, you don't know that what u do today. Mam you saved my life. Now i am very happy Mam, really mam really. In this time i am tearful but these tears are the sign of happiness. really mam you are great. You are Great Mam. Thak You.....................
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